i have stopped my old ways. it got boring and she make me want to be better than that. i told her bout my past when we were just friends and now she thinks she will be another one of the rest. i told her no but she doesnt belive me. she the only girl i see and im the only guy she sees. id like any advice that can help. i never had a good girl and its been like almost 2 years and nothing. is that normal. help me out yall. thanks
2006-07-05 22:20:51 · 10 answers · asked by SLICK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it depends on whether you come out of retirement, or if you are really tired of being "tired" you have to change everything that you knew how to do and do things you don't know how to do like being with one woman without being with other women. It's like turning a strech limo into a regular sedan, it can be done but with ALOT of work. You are on the right track but just like a drug addiction those "urges" will come back and can you resist them. You have to tell yourself that what you could get is not as good as what you have. Hope that helps
2006-07-05 22:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is your own fault because you behaved like that in the past.Now this girl don't believe you.That is why I can't understand the guys like you, who want to hurt girl's feelings and they don't see the consequences.But OK.You can't change your past.I think you should try to convince her that you have changed a lot, tell her to forget the past.Tell her that you were more young then and wanted to have just a little fun but now you are serious.Swear to her and tell her not to be afraid
2006-07-05 22:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro.. i know what's up... it's hard to pour out your past and then not be trusted... but at the same time i see where she's coming from... you have got to earn that trust of hers. if she's the world to you then you'll search the world over for her... you say it's been two years, maybe it's time for a commitment analysis... is she ready for a commitment of her own? perhaps she's still having trouble grasping the prospect of being taken... just sweep her off her feet Casanova... it's the only way... speak from the heart, not the groin... or else it'll be trouble.. know what i mean?
2006-07-05 22:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dale J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you did the mistake of telling her about your past next time around as a woman i let you know we dont want you men to tell us who you did, what you did and how many you did !
2006-07-05 22:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dodgerchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u blame her 4 thinkng lyk that?There's no way 'round that one coz she'l always have the fear of being a fool 4 trusting u've changed if u let her down in the future...
2006-07-05 22:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by penda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl can hardly be blamed. If you love her, be patient, and she will see in time that you are a changed man. Good luck!
2006-07-05 22:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Player, ha ha. Good one. Wrong subject though you should be over in jokes & riddles.
2006-07-05 22:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by J's On My Feet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
upon all she saw before its like she cannot trust you any more because she feel to secure enough so you need to work hard to gain her trust.so its not going be easy.
2006-07-05 22:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove it both in action and words its hard to convince us chics especially on issues such as behavioral change.gd day.
2006-07-05 22:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you reap what you sow
2006-07-05 22:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋