Is it emotional cheating if the man looks at porn?
Even if the man is not touching the women, he is touching himself while he thinks of the women from porn. I think this is emotional cheating, because I have had several guys who have told me if given the chance they would have sex with the women from porn in a heartbeat.
But you wanted that cheesburger bad didn't you? And had it been right there in front of you, you would have eaten it!
2006-07-05 22:19:52 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Gilmore♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you agree ?
2006-07-05 22:20:20 · update #1
It's not cheating!! Trust me, many people, both men and women sometimes think about someone else while masturbating or having sex. It's human nature to fantasize. You should be thanking him that he is just watching porn instead of out cheating on you. Us men are visual so we like seeing different things from time to time. Why not try watching porn with him, you actually might like it. But seriously, chill out...99% of guys watch porn..it's just how we are....it's not emotional chetaing. Now let's say he is in love with or infatuated with a woman he works with...that would be emotional cheating.
2006-07-05 22:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow. I was never aware of this. I've never cheated on a girlfriend and never would, even with a famous person(there not really anything special... actually just normal people). I've actually used porn as a channel to not physically cheat. I guess I wouldn't, if it bothered the woman I'm with at the time.
2006-07-05 22:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nep 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Gilmore,
This depends on the mentality of a person who is watching porn and the reason for watching.
You would be shocked to know that porn is actually meant for educating people about sex and the anatomy of the opposite sex and the same sex aswell. People can not just jump on to the act right when they feel like, and wants to know something prior to the act.
Another reason is to stimulate themselves to release the pressure off their 'whacky'.
Another is to fantasize about the person in the porn and make up to what they are lacking in themselves and their partner.
Another is to make up the loss of partner for those who dont really have one.
Another is what you just said like, to try and think about the partner in the porn to be with you and fantasize her or him to be with you.
Well there are many more but cant get along with them anymore here. For any further more info u may contact me by mail or chat........
Happy Info there....
vikram_sbhatt@yahoo.co.in
2006-07-05 22:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by boom9849 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey look at it this way, even we fantisize about Rio Ferdinand or even Vin diesel...that doesnt mean we cheating on him. Men are men, its not cheating, and if you adapt that attitude you will never be happy, the guy that doesnt fantasize will be too boring for you, coz he wont know much about his sexual side.
2006-07-05 22:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you claiming that you NEVER fanatsize about someone else?
Looking at porn is not cheating. If you are really worried, look at it with him! Could lead to some kinky ideas and fun times!
2006-07-05 22:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if was going to cheat one you in the firts place i would have sex with a porn star, but if i was not going to cheat on you in the first place then i would not have sex with a porn star.
2006-07-05 22:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No cheating is physical, emotional cheating is if he lies and hides the pron saying he doesn't have any.
2006-07-05 22:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not cheating some of us {men} can refuse the burger
2006-07-05 22:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by CM 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no it's not let the guy look at his porn and for god sakes give him back his cheeseburger!
2006-07-05 22:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by g_town_master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just join in...let the man have his burger,they'll need extra buns :)
2006-07-05 22:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by miss.douchebag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋