Like in the movie butterfly effect. I found A pretty girl, she doesnt want a releationship, but did when I met her. She already gave me the pregancy scare, now she won't let me touch her. She wants to be around me sometimes, but only on her terms. she still kisses and teases, and we have a powerful connection, but it's making me suffer. I'd rather let go, but am alone in life and crave the company. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to continue to hurt either. Are there any pills for this??
2006-07-05 22:16:21 · 6 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her really hot young friend wants me badly, I could use that as a way out, but I don't like to move that way.
2006-07-05 22:17:35 · update #1
It sounds like she learned her lesson from the pregnancy scare. If anything, that sounds like a very responsible and admirable decision. Can you tell her that you are uncomfortable with the teasing and not being able to move forward? Maybe she wants more, but is trying to do the right thing (as to not have an unwanted pregnancy). I also think it's admirable that you don't want to use the friend to damage the first relationship. Try to talk things out and see if you can find a mutually acceptable relationship that respects both sets of boundaries.
2006-07-05 22:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, poor baby, u are really hurting! u have to end things with this girl because as u say, she's a tease and from my own experience i think she's playing u. but i don't think u should get back at her by going after her friend behind her back because u see, that's bad karma. instead u should tell her that she should leave u alone because u want to move on to better things and ppl. and then if u like her friend then give it a try. my heart goes out to u!
2006-07-06 05:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by sweet thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need to control it or leave it if u cant make a terms agreement u will only feel cheap cuz she's controling u ,u cant just live like that if ur doing this ur making her desrespect u and she wont have that great feelings for u she will always see u as a weak person so why to love u
u better fix it or leave it before u get more hurt
2006-07-06 05:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r screwd man.
u love her dont u.
well the only way u can leave her and not hurt is is making her hate u .
only thing that will work nothing else but after doing that u have to promis urself never to go back to that gal
if u have any intentions of going back then dont do it
chill bro its a very confussing situation.
2006-07-06 05:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her what you want. Sometimes you just have to think about yourself and do what's best for yourself. Question...would you rather be happy and alone....or miserable with someone else?
2006-07-12 00:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by serial_brain_killer_with_a_spoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothin wrong with drifting apart from what u don't want and movin towards what u do.
don' worry...be happy
2006-07-06 05:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋