I need to let go of someone who makes me feel good, but makes meel feel bad about myself more. How do you do it without going crazy?
2006-07-05 21:57:11 · 11 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting someone out of your heart is one of the hardest things to do.
2006-07-05 22:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god, it's gonna be difficult! but u have to realise that reason must prevail over feelings. if that relationship makes u feel bad about urself then u know that on the long run it won't last and it's better to end things now when u still haven't invested so much in it. i know it's hard, but be selfish and think only about urself. try to go out more and meet other people and keep urself busy with other activities and avoid that person and her/his phonecalls. it's nothing new, but u needed to hear this from someone else, right?
2006-07-06 05:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweet thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's hard to get over with someone. but just be patient, sooner or later that feeling will fade away little by little. it takes time. but if you want to forget how you feel about that person, do some things that can entertain you and might forget about your feelings for that person. like hang out with your friends, ask also some advice from them. they can help you. i tell you, you can do it w/out going crazy!! in this small world, you can meet many people.. maybe one of those people can be your special person. dont close your doors to people.. know them.. share your interests w/ them.. after you've done that thing, you may start to realize that that person who hurt you is not worth being with.. and the person you're having fun with is the person you need in your life..
2006-07-06 05:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by mARiaN t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take time! Eventually, the pain will lessen, and you will feel different about them, but you'll never fully get this person out of your heart.
Let them go, then fill your down time with friends, having crazy summer fun... who knows, you may meet someone who will help you forget all about this dude!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-06 05:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know where you're coming from but I know all to well that it isn't easy and is pretty much impossible to just let someone you care about go.
2006-07-06 05:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by chell2g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time...... and eventually replacement. i just went threw this. its hard and long. i'm not finished yet. don't dwell.... get involved to get ur mind off it while meeting other people... go dancing. make new friends that don't know ur other person and don't tell them much about him/her. that way ur problems and personal life never comes up while ur trying to have fun.
2006-07-06 05:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by loveme! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to let go
know that it is the best thing for your well being and in turn help their evloution as well by letting go.
2006-07-06 05:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day at a time
2006-07-06 05:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Feathers-n-Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get him out of your mind by involving yourself in other activities, but you cannnot get him out of your heart. impossible.
2006-07-06 05:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pff ... it's strart to looks like love ...
anyway ...
it's like to ask "How to stop to think !?"
It's mind related , and much you think about him , much hard it will become for removing ...
2006-07-06 05:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sun Sonic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋