Usually, the way it turns out the girl gives up the sex in hopes of love. The guy starts to have feelings of love for a female in return he gets more sex. It's a give and take does anyone agree with the way both sexes are programmed in society
2006-07-05 21:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know your right!! Why are men sooo concerned with sex, why can't they just Get It!!! Like we do.......
2006-07-05 21:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think it is, due to the fact, that sex is so readily available. Men and women can get sex as easy as getting an apple pie from Mc Donald’s….
If you really think about it, our society is built on sex... you turn on the TV, flip through pages of a magazine... and all you see is T&A, or buff bodies... Even walking into a supermarket.. There are lots of lonely men and women out there looking for "love" (I think people get Lust confused with love most of the time).... I believe everybody is looking for love in all the wrong places...
I finally decided to stop looking... stop everything and just concentrate on myself... I'm devoting myself to school and my career... Then again how can I really love someone..? When I have my own issues... so I'm getting everything ready for myself and whoever is going to just fit into "our" life. I really hate realizing that about 95% of men are only going to want me for just sex (I'm sorry what you have stated is so true... I've DATED 100s of guys...not SLEPT...keyword:)...but all they were waiting for was the HOPE that sex will come along (who knows... they were probably getting it somewhere else) or to show that they can get somebody good-looking... how do I know... that's what they told their friends /me ...jerks.. I know.. it took me a long time.. To just forget about guys...It sounds sad, but at least I’ve learned.. I just feel bad when babies are made in such an unloving environment and they are stuck with their parent’s unfailing tendencies)
However, in the past to go on dates couples have chaperones. Now 13 year olds go on dates. Who knows what happens. I can't believe how sexually advanced the youth are these days. I started having sex till I was way way way older... but now I’m back at square one.. And I'm not ashamed of it…
I will not lie.. I maybe a female... I am waiting to experience Love… Even if I die alone.. so be it.. I’m not going to be with a jerk again... However, I am convinced people do get Lust confused with love.. I did... let me tell you I've learned my lessons... Love is not easy.. But I’m willing to wait and enjoy the experiences that are due to come my way... but for now I’m a man-hater...lol .. just kidding… I just hope what goes around comes around.. I so believe in Karma..
As you can tell.. I 'm really not liking this scenario.. It really hurts the way men are with genuinely nice women.. I see it all the time.. Then again I’ve seen it vice a versa…or however that phrase is spelled... (come on everybody has there moments.. And nobody is perfect. But you can get close.) ...
2006-07-05 23:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Help a sister out 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not always true a lot of women will do anything for sex and some men just want love.
2006-07-05 22:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I jsut wish that guys didnt always have to have sex with you to love you. I know what ya mean. And girls shouldn't have to have sex for the guy to love them either cuz if you had true love then sex shouldn't matter!
2006-07-05 22:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so it is true that women are more unto the idea of love, but if you think they always choose love over sex you're dead wrong. i mean i have known to be with a man whos great and all just for sex. so stereo typing is always a little misleading sweetie....
2006-07-05 22:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause men are usually thinking with the wrong head and woman are using there heart
2006-07-05 21:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dodgerchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but right now ALL I WANT IS SEX!!! Forget the love... it complicates things... I just want to have as much sex as possible.
2006-07-05 21:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn Monroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lol
in short..that is life playing with us..not socity
in detail
that is our choice (both) not society
the question can be also as:
if we refused to follow this path...what will happen to us?
easily vanishing.....and the life will use other actor race to enroll......and forget us
2006-07-05 22:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are horny, Women are over dramatic. Men are simple, women are too needy. Need I say more?
2006-07-05 22:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ladies feel with our heads and hearts...they feel with the lower parts of their bodies. That's how they're made...most of them that is.
2006-07-05 22:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Leesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋