And you really care about each other... but you're in different states. Who should go visit who? The guy visit the girl, or the girl visit the guy?
I am going to NJ to visit a guy, but everybody keeps telling me why isn't he coming to Florida. Am I making a huge mistake?
2006-07-05 21:45:36 · 15 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kinda bought the ticket... I leave Friday at 7:40pm. I am staying at my uncle's house in the Bronx. I have seen pictures, we do talk on the phone, and he's sent me letters. Just today I received a letter and a CD full of romantic songs. I'm so confused.
2006-07-05 21:55:56 · update #1
lol... i went somewhere to meet a chick once and she ditched me. i dunno why. uhhh. i would stick to local meet ups. not outside of state. btw she was way the **** in oklahoma and im in california
2006-07-05 21:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Oh, Natey-O! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you at least talked on the phone? Has he sent you a picture, address etc. If it were me I would go visit the girl provided she felt safe with that. Also if you met on-line- how do you really care about the person without any physical contact of some sort. These days you really need to be careful- your family and friends have a right to be worried. try and get him to come see you and make you first meeting in a public place where everybody knows where you are etc. If he cares then he will understand. Be careful and good luck. Hope it works out well for you.
2006-07-06 04:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well my opinion is that he should come visit you first the girl should never make the first move in a situation like that. If were me i would go visit her first to make sure she is in a comfortable situation but that is just me but only you know what you think is right and don't let anyone discourage you. Besides Florida is nice i know i live here too good luck.
2006-07-06 04:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by C Dubb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I think you make a mistake and you have to stay home.If he wants to see you and cares for you,he will come to see you and eventually to travel together to NY.It is not old fashioned.It is about how much a men cares for you...I met a guy on line and he traveled 2500km to see me.Unfortunately,we were not made for each other,but we are good friends now...
2006-07-06 04:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No aren't making a mistake. It's what the two of you want..not what everyone else thinks should happen. When I met my guy online, I went to visit him...
2006-07-06 04:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are taking an enormous risk. Do you have to go alone? What if you decided to take a vacation with a friend, to a destination near there, like NYC, then the trip wouldn't be just about him.
Then, if he's sincere, he could meet you in a public place; with your friend(s) close by. Please be careful.
2006-07-06 04:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by jdshep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are! Let him come to you! If he's really interested in visiting you, he will go to Florida and see you!
2006-07-06 04:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSS!!! Girl you could get killed or raped...You really don't know this man. What about all the "What If's"....R U Crazy!!!!!! If you really want to go definitely take 2 or 3 g/f and at least I male!!
2006-07-06 04:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i guess im old fashioned... but i think da guy shuld *** visit u... but if u both really care about eachother... dem i guess it really dont matter... but be careful since dis is an online meeting thing...
2006-07-06 04:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...coz if im in his shoes, not only will i visit you, i will bring a dozen of dozen of flowers just for you.
2006-07-06 04:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋