my is heart is broken!!!?

Question

me and my girl just broke up to night!!!and my heart is killing me!!!i fell like i dont want to go on with out her!!!what should i do???PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

u need a good cry
and a good sleep
contact herinm a few days and talk about it rationally
my heart does go out for u

Answer 2

You are not the first and you will certainly not be the last to get dumped by a girl. What you have to do is the same thing an owner tells a jockey who has been thrown from a horse, " you got to get back in the saddle again" or you will never make it. So take one day at a time, seek support from your friends and family, and if you work concentrate on that. And look for a new friend in the meantime. Do not give her the satisfaction of seeing you broken down either.Learn from this experience, you know what was wrong with it in your heart, so don't make the same mistake twice.

Answer 3

Wow,that realy does hurt.Im sorry u had 2 go through that pain.It's such a horrible feeling that no one should ever have 2 go through.There's nothing worse than dying inside,and losing the one u love most.Sorry about that but u need 2 give it time.It'll hurt but it takes time.U'll find sum 1 else,and who know's maybe u'l end up w/ her again.But for rite now it's best 2 think about this,and decide wether or not she realy did love u,or in the end u were the only one that loved her.If ur love was strong it wouldn't have ended there.Love is a srong thing that hurts alot.I just hope u find sum 1 that loves u more and has more 2 offer.Good luckw/ time.

Answer 4

Just simmer down bob... ask yourself why did you'll break up. I have been in this same situation. If you really love her, give her space wait a little while and let things smooth over. I broke up my girl and then a year and half later I got back with her and now the love is much stronger. Although she dated like 3 other guys after that, I stayed true to her and I didn't date anyone for that whole 1.5 years and finally I got back with her and I still lover her.

Answer 5

Sorry to here of your problem Bob, I just posted this to another yahoo answers member who is experiencing the same thing as you, so you are definitely not alone here. even I myself have delt with this problem many times.

You are already taking a great first step by talking about your feelings with others, my true belief is that only time heals wounds and if you meet some other special person during that time, then they may help you with the process of shifting your total thought from the girl whom you were previously attracted, although I personally believe that you should be careful into not jumping into a relationship just to get over your broken heart.

Give yourself some time, become your own best friend, and get in touch with whom you are on the inside, then you will know better whom is meant for you.

Also stay active, go swimming, or anything that will shift your attention to other projects, and other people.

Please hang in there Bob, and please remember that while pain is not fun at all, it serves purpose to our understanding of it, and only through experiencing pain, may we be capable of recognizing true joy, and happiness, and true happiness will not come from being with another, it must begin from with in yourself and then you will take your happiness into your next relationship.

I know you can do it, just smile and please don't let this get you down, we here on yahoo answers are rooting for you. :)

Answer 6

Ouch that hurts. It's so fresh right now, I know it will get better. I imagine you loved her and this is like severing a major tie the first few days and weeks hurt each day it will get less, time heals the cuts, fate heals the deepest wounds. Cry as much as you want, mourn the loss of the relationship and slowly but surely you will find happiness and love again in a different chapter of your life.
So hang on it'll be alright you won't hurt.

Answer 7

I think that's normal! most peoples' haerts are hurt when the break up a relationship. but why are u so desperate? don't think that this is the end of the world, no way! i know, u really love her, but u 'll get to find a better girl for sure!don't get too upset, it harms u!!of course u should not stay in and try to forget without result! u should try to go out, make new friends, find another girlfriend!don't say u can't go on without her!that's really incorrect!see the things more clearly and try to make the most of it!now u are free, ready for new love adventures!maybe that girl wasn't ur soul mate!nevermind!u 'll get to find another, if u don't desperate and cry all the time!!go out!!

Answer 8

Hang in there. Relationships are hard.

I can remember missing someone soooo badly that I'd play
our favorite songs over and over. It hurt. But, in retrospect, that
relationship would never have worked. Time heals. It really does.
Be good to yourself- you'll find someone better.

I can totally relate to your punctuation, though. !!!!!!! When I
felt like that over a break up, I'd write bad poetry. And then he'd
call weeks later. And I'd forgive him. This went on and on and on
ad nauseum. I have volumes of bad poetry.

I did learn that it's a complete waste of time and self-respect
to try to convince someone to love you if they plain don't.
The pain will subside (like a broken wrist) and you'll be fine.

Take care and be good to yourself.

Answer 9

Your feeling what everyone has felt ten times over and you will feel it for sometime but hang in there it will pass and so will she go to bed and sleep tomorrow is around the corner be positive dont beat yourself up and smile no matter what

Answer 10

Relax. Chill. Forget about it. Party for a night. Dance for a night. And come back home crying.