ok I had sex with this girl who swore up and down she was a virgin..
when we first had sex I assumed I would have to go slow etc because from what I hear it's painful for a girl for her first time..
well apparently she felt no pain..was she lying about being a virgin?
2006-07-05 20:59:59 · 18 answers · asked by tampabay5400 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily. Not all girls feel intense pain.
2006-07-05 21:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She could have had a gyno app. before. That could break the hymen. The hymen is a tissue within the walls of the vagina that tears during vaginal intercourse. That causes the pain.
I recently lost my virginity, and I only felt a few pinches and I didn't bleed like I thought I was supposed to. But I went to my gyno before hand and I believe that's what broke my hymen.
2006-07-06 04:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may or she may not be a virgin. It depends on how much you trust her. Not all virgins feel pain the first time they have sex neither is it true that they bleed the first time they have sex.
2006-07-06 04:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not nessasarily. she may have been used to it from tampons, pap tests from the doctor etc. for a lot of girls it does hurt, but when i lost my virginity it didnt' hurt. so i wouldn't think she was lying. but if you had unprotected sex, i would go get a check up an get the works checked out just in case.
2006-07-06 04:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya possible she is lying to u.
Even my 2nd time is very painful.. Not to mention to 1st time, my 1st bf didn't even manage to put in!
Well does it really matter anyway? Is virgin so important to u? Are u a virgin yourself? If not, u have no rights to criticise her
2006-07-06 04:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it--my first time didn't hurt me at all.
On a related note, it's good that you went slow with her, and you should actually apply that to all the women you sleep with--no woman likes to be accosted by a bunny rabbit.
2006-07-06 04:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I didnt have any pain either.... slight discomfort, but nothing to cry over... and I didnt bleed... so, it doesnt make her a liar... The guy I had sex with didnt believe me either... so dont say it to her because you'll just piss her off...
2006-07-06 04:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The sensitivity level of each girl is different, it's the same like how human body's different one and another.
2006-07-06 04:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by shinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Women are much more physically active today, which could cause her hymen to tear. Also, if she uses tampons the same thing could happen.
2006-07-06 04:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a 50 - 50 chance here, it depends on so many factor, size of yours and hers, how sporty is she etc etc.
2006-07-06 04:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋