Gays, if you could change your sexuality to straight, would you?

Question

Just wondering, do you want to remain Gay? if you had the choice to be straight, would you?

Personally, I wouldn't, I'm happy the way I am.

Note: I am GAY, I'm just wondering what others think.... I never even think what it would be like to be straight, no way I'd change!

Answer 1

I dunno doubt it, but I'd love to be straight I wouldn't have so much stress on me I swear I wish straights would for one day live the life of gay people so they understand it is not a choice or anything like that if it was a choice GUESS WHAT! I'd be straight lol

Answer 2

Since we're talking FANTASY here...

I could be straight, if I could also be a woman. I'd have thick, jet black hair and huge t!ts and long legs, Hazel Eyes. I would never have kids, and would probably get a job as a stripper or Go-Go Girl who becomes a high class Call Girl and Madame and make TONS of money and write a book and get a TV Talk Show and win the Pulitzer Prize have a home or condo in Boston, Seattle, Miami, and Las Vegas AND never have a menstral period.

Seriously, I'd have to say no....
Even tho if I WERE a straight guy, my life could be MUCH easier, I think a lot of gay people are more interesting, if not, unique.

I have always been gay so I have nothing else to compare it to, other than the hatred that I have endured all my life by straight people. It makes a person ugly.

If you could, would you be Gay?

Answer 3

If you had asked me this when I was 13, I probably would have said yes. By the time I was 17, I would have had doubts. Being 44 and looking back on my life, I'd definitely say, "HELL NO!"

It's not that my life has been a bed of roses (it was tough being a kid and being "different"), but overall I look at the quality of my life and relationships and I'm a very happy man. I have a great home life, wonderful friends and rewarding work.

I love my straight family and friends, but honestly, their lives are so pale by comparison. I know they've sacrificed a lot for their kids, but they just don't seem to have the same "spark" for life that most of my gay friends do. Seems most of the gay people I know can make something out of nothing, so that even a simple backyard barbeque is an event - with seemingly little to no effort. Straight life just seems so...dull. Who would choose that?!?

thanks for letting me put in my 2 cents.

Answer 4

Neither would I, thank you. I've known that boys were special to me and girls weren't since 8. I was one of the lucky ones. I recognized it was sexual at 11 and had my first b/f late in my 13th year. I came out at 14 and it never much effected me. So I was able to have normal teen years, with crushes that I could acknowledge myself on boys, and so forth.

The guilt and shame that many gay bois have I never experienced. I wasn't trained to, so I didn't (its all learned of course, naturally no gay boy would feel it.)

I am happy as I am and would not take the serum. I fear I might even side with Magneto *huge grin*

Peace,

Reyn
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Answer 5

well, I'm happy the way I am.
I think question for you is, if you could change YOUR sexuality, would you?
that's like asking someone if they could change their race or eye color, etc.
do you have a problem with gay people? or is this just an honest question?

Answer 6

Nope, not at all. I may have at one point early in my life thought about what life would be like if I was straight but I knew that it was not possible to change so I accepted who I was and have been happy since.

It's kinda fun being different anyway.

Answer 7

Ew, no, why would someone do that? I think there's only a bigger hypocresy that not being bisexual and it's to turn straight after you've been gay.

Edmund Freud's with me, he says everyone's gay and they just can't admit to it. Glitter and be gay, everyone!! (Get it?)

Answer 8

I have often thought it would be nice to not be the butt of jokes and not the minority and to be able to marry the one I love and not to be treated as a sinner and as a sick person.I tried to change and it only lead to self torch-er.I have since accepted myself as I am and no longer allow anyone to try and force me to be anyone else just because they don't like who or what am.

Answer 9

why would I want to change the way I was born.... Gay and Proud of it !
Changing that would be a lie , and lieing is a sin ...not happening here !

Answer 10

No way! I look at all the hassles the breeders go through and count my blessings. They cut us down for being gay, but have they looked at their existance through our eyes? Snort!