what if your gf thinks your cheating on her but your not ive tryed explianing it to her but she wont listen to /\/\e what do i do
2006-07-05 20:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see ive asked her to go with /\/\e but she sayes no she will not speak to /\/\e at all plz i need your help
2006-07-05 20:50:07 · update #1
If u really didn't cheat her, what to worry? Since u have explained to her again and again, but she still refuse to trust u, what's the point? Trust is the most important thing between 2 people, if she even cannot trust u on this, u better leave her for good.
If u are considering a serious relationship, she is not the choice. Just imagine, if this happen again after u start working, what will happen? Do u think u have so much time to worry on these small things? No way
2006-07-05 20:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow her to express her fears about you cheating on her, listen to her intently..whatever you do DONT get mad or defensive or it will confirm her fears. keep reasurring her..offer to take her with you when you go places, let her know where you are. Just never get mad at her about it. try this for a month if she hasn't calmed down and you can't stand it anymore you may want to see a councelor for a couple sessions. Or if she doesn't mean that much to you let her go. If you really aren't cheating on her and she won't stop believing you are she will be hard to live with.
2006-07-06 03:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by feather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, when someone starts accusing the other of cheating, THEY are the one doing the cheating or thinking about it. Not always the case, but I'd be wary if I were you.
2006-07-06 04:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that the ones who acuse and acuse are usually the ones with something to hide. Don't take my word on it, but if you have shown her nothing to indicate that you are cheating then maybe you should do a little investigation yourself.
2006-07-13 23:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Brandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships dont work without trust, tell her that
2006-07-06 03:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just clarify her doubts
2006-07-06 03:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a three-way !!!!!
2006-07-06 03:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Inframan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋