Herpies
2006-07-05 20:23:07 · 19 answers · asked by gamereaper3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just sit her down and start from the beginning. She has to know.
2006-07-05 20:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people that don't know what they are talking about are giving you grief, man. I had the same thing happen to me. I felt like something was wrong, told my girlfriend, and I went to the doctor. They didn't find anything wrong. A few weeks later I found out I had herpes from my new girlfriend who I had gave it to. A lot of people (especially men) get it and don't know. I have heard that other STD's are missed by women that are easily noticed by men. You need to stop having sex, tell your girlfriend, and have her get tested. She might still be in the clear. I stayed with my girl for three years before we broke up. In the fourteen years I have had it, I have only passed it to one other woman. For the rest of your life, you will have to tell every woman you are about to have sex with that you have herpes. Not to mention wear a condom, even though that is not always foolproof protection against herpes. It is your responsibility, and wouldn't you have liked to know the risk from the girl you got it from? Let's hope she doesn't have it, and go on from there. There is no cure for herpes, but there are medicines out there to treat the symptoms. Good luck to you and your girlfriend.
2006-07-05 21:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had it before her then you should have said something first. if you just found out then be honest and tell her. offer to accompany her to get tested for whatever it is too. Be prepared for her to get upset. there is a big stigma on stds and even if your oh so careful you can get one. Also if you know who you got it from tell them too. if you got it while yall were together then youll have to fess up to cheatin too. good luck
2006-07-05 20:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, why would you cheapen a woman and yourself by having sex without first getting married? Find a good Bible teaching church and get a relationship with His Son, Jesus, and you will find all the answers you will need. There is much moe happiness with Him,than anything you can find in what you are doing. Have a blessed week.
2006-07-05 20:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by BONNIE GLASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dude noo..it really is in ordinary words honest to her enable her comprehend so she receives dealt with..which could be f*cked up if u did not even care adequate to inform her particular shell not b satisfied about ur more beneficial curricular events yet she advantages to understand..
2016-11-01 07:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with her. The longer that you keep it from her, the worse the punishment may be. Tell her that you love her, and you do not deserve her. Tell her that she is the angel that has lit your world from the moment you saw her. Tell her the truth. Tell her everything, and then wait for a slap. That seriously deserves a slap.
2006-07-05 20:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there i no need to feel ashamed of if u o not tell her now u would ruin her life alsowould u like to o that .no no u would not so go to her & frankly tell her about ur STD
2006-07-05 20:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by AMIT K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to sit down. And then tell her. It is important that she get tested. Especially if you are positive that you have herpes. Good luck!!
2006-07-05 20:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have known you had the herpes prior to having sex with your current GF !
Shame on you !
2006-07-05 20:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a distance you ignorant piece of Sh*t.Stupid assholes like you are the reason this world is so ****** up.You got what you deserve,I hope she does'nt have it.
2006-07-05 20:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. It will be really hard and you might get dumped, but it is the right thing to do.
2006-07-05 20:27:19 · answer #11 · answered by Mohammed R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋