earlier she was not showing this much anger..
often this turns into an arguement and stop-talk for a while between us.
she complains that i dont know to work properly household things..
is it that or something more serious..
there is definitely no question on our love or fidelity..
2006-07-05 20:11:33 · 9 answers · asked by alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could be frustrated about something you have no effect on. Try talking to her to find out what is wrong. Show that you care by trying to do things "her way" so that you know they will be right. Show compassion. Most times when women act out we are not just mad. There are other things that influence our reactions too...
2006-07-05 20:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is just because she loves you a lot and she wants her man to be perfect. She has got some extraordinary expectations from you, which even you may not know. and when you do not meet these expectations, she feels irritated and get angry.
But don't worry. The only solution to this problem is to sit with her and talk about this in a very romantic way. Make her feel attended and calm, then tell her that nobody in this world is perfect, yet you are trying to be because you also love her. Let her feel your careness and love for her. She herself will understand this truth.
But this is not sufficient, Along with this you will have to take care of what she feels bad about. Do the things as per her and you will see the difference.
2006-07-05 20:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has Obsessive Compulsive disorder and has to have everything perfectly clean?
You are putting a good effort into your tasks right? If you both work, you should evenly share chores, including cooking and laundry. Try making a chore journal for a week, writing down each chore you do, then compare notes. You might be surprised.
2006-07-05 20:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be funny, but maybe she has some kind of hormonal imbalance that makes her irrational or irritable. When one is depressed or suffers from anxiety, they tend to lash out in anger.
You should see if your wife would be willing to go to the doctors to get a full physical. It could be something purely hormonal. Good luck to you.
2006-07-05 20:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look for the couse why she do that. Sometimes woman do that when feeling hurt, scared or being unwanted anymore by her husband. This is a kind of looking for attention, coulb be like that.
Maybe She is jealous.....try to find it out My Friend. Restrospect Your selves and than faind the right time to discuss about it to her
2006-07-05 20:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get angry with my ex about everything. Partly it was a control issue, and partly it was a way to try to make him stand up for himself and let me know how HE really felt about things. (He is very, very passive)
But, after the divorce, I found out that I am bi-polar (manic-depressive), and I take medication now that keeps me on an even keel, And I am so sorry for the angry outbursts,
2006-07-05 20:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joey's Back 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your wife? Is she heading towards Menopause?......That might be a reason,else you are not paying much attention to her mental and physical needs which is making her react in front of you.
2006-07-05 20:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by dipti r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit with her and try to understand her probelum weather what she want and how can you help him it that whatever she want from you she can"t express that"s why she is upset
2006-07-05 20:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by ajaykaushik2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to married life.The honeymoon is over,LOL
2006-07-05 20:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋