2006-07-05 20:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why it is like this? Explain?
2006-07-05 20:14:46 · update #1
Can u judge your bf by whether he wants to make love with u very frequently?
2006-07-05 20:18:58 · update #2
thats true. Most men equate making love with saying i love you. This is because most men arent talkers, they're doers. They tend to make there feelings known by actions because the better part of the male population had it burned into their brains that feelings are for sissys. Also sometimes words just arent enough to express how much you love someone, i feel like that all the time
2006-07-05 20:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the society we are living in especially the 21st Century, many things seem to be 'mis-placed'. Love as an emotion has many ways of expression. However, if it is what it was meant to be, the expression should not end up hurting or demeaning the intended recepient. For example I can express love for someone by just holding their hand, offering to carry their parcel or even saying kind and thoughtful words. When expressed, it should leave the other person with among others an aspect of fulfillment.
Sex does not primarily express love but consumates it. This is why mainly in the religious circles and some social settings, it's kept off the picture till one marries!! Sex is like a certificate which we get after completing a grade in school. If someone has not covered the said course, how and for what will they get the certificate?
When most men get inclined towards sex to ladies who are not their wives, what they don't say is, that they are not expressing love but seeking gratification for their sexual drives/desires!!
Ladies because of their emotional fabric are taken in the 'drag-net' to beleive that a man asking them for sex loves them and is expressing love!!Ooops
Hope this sheds some light,..thanks
2006-07-06 04:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on the emotional bond and maturity of the people. When a grown man loves a grown woman and they took the time to develop a strong friendship, trust, respect and love....eventually he will ask her to make love. He may wait for marriage or he may just wait.
But the focus should be on other things besides sex. It should be a focus of having fun with each other and getting to know each other. Sex should come later....after two people have gotten extremely close and the relationship is heading towards marriage.
It is not necessarily a good idea to have sex with someone unless it is heading toward marriage because sex involves too many emotions. And women tend to get attached to men they sleep with.
2006-07-06 03:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Sometimes, a night of crazy sex with a woman you love is just what the doctor ordered. Other times, nice and slow lovemaking is right. I used to have a girlfriend that told me, "don't f--- me, make love to me." I realize now that I am older that not all women are like that. My last girlfriend liked sex more than making love. When I really was feeling close to her and tried to "make love", she almost seemed detached. You need to find a man who matches your style and needs. Now that I'm older, I sure miss those nights from my past with my true love. I might be a romantic, but sex is great, making love is fantastic.
2006-07-06 03:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda true! coz, guys like to OWN what they love, so by having sex it is a feeling that some guys feel that they OWN the girl! thats y guys want to make love with his girl! this is not same for all the guys, there are some different reasons too!
2006-07-06 03:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by HeLLboY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just to let you know. GUYS WILL "MAKE LOVE" TO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING THAT MOVES. Just because a guy wants to have sex with you definitly does not mean he loves you. He might love you but I would judge that by whether or not he wants to have sex.
2006-07-06 03:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by pittycolors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I LOVE SEX AND ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS OUTTA LOVE AND SINCE IM MARRIED AND FAITHFUL I AINT GONNA TELL MY MAN NO AND FOR THE MATTER I KNO HE AINT NO *** SO HE KNOWS HOW TO EXPRESS SEX IN SEVERAL WAYS BESIDES SEX AND IM HAPPY WITH ALL.
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TRUE STORY
2006-07-06 21:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by MiShel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if it is true love he would probably be open 4 sex but not crazy to have it
2006-07-06 03:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like sex love-making and a good fu*kin. and all men dont think that way! a man shows his love out of bed sweetie. however if he cares for you he will show concern for you getting you orgasm as well. hope ive helped!
2006-07-06 03:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who the people are!
2006-07-06 03:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by sirsmoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋