2006-07-05 20:10:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your girlfriend doesn't like you for who you are, then why are you with her? Lying to make yourself for others will only make you miserable in the end. Find a girl that likes you for you! She's out there somewhere.
2006-07-05 20:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yourself... If you temporarily change who you are while you're around her (e.g. If you are impatient without her and nothing phazes you when you are), then the real you would eventually haunt you when 1. She comes over and find you cussing out a telemarketer, 2. Calls at 4 in the morning, you forget and say something like "why the hell did you call me at 4 in the morning just to say you love me? That's stupid" and hang up or 3. You get the world's clumsiest waiter and you crack, then she'll say something like "Oh you're not the same person I knew" and eventually seperate from you.
2006-07-05 20:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by edwardw818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think is rude that people say your question is stupid! We need to understand that you are here because you need positive suggestions not insults!
I think it's not enough to say "Be yourself" Guys are not born knowing how to treat a lady. I think, the "great personality" that you crave comes from Knowing how to treat a woman like she likes. I suggest that you talk to her and ask her directly what she likes and how she likes a bf to treat her.
For example, in my case I like guys to give me compliments, and little things that make me feel special and that he cares for me. I like him to tell me "u look good on that" or "here, I brought you a flower" (even if this guy steals the flower from his neighbor).
it's best if you have this conversation of "get to know what she loves about a man and how to treat her" very early in the relationship so that you know her and act that way (if you want to make her happy)- {with this- I'm not telling you to be someone else, I'm just suggesting to incorporate some of this things as part of expanding your personality}-- if you don't don't have this conversation early in the relationship she'll know this is not how you are and now you are changing....and she won't like that--because she knows THIS IS NOT PART OF YOU!!!!!
PS: i love when a guy is tough (notice-not violent), when he makes some of the decisions, at the same time- needs to be sensitivy (but not sissy) and I love it when they COOK!...mmm...yummy!
Good lucK!!!!!!!!
PS: be spontaneous!
ex) take her to dinner and when the waiter gets there to take the order....Take charge! (make sure she tells you what she wants b4 hand so u order okay!)...say " we want this...and that....aaH!!! but brings us the dessert first!!! and then our food!). She'll love it! (well, I do....hehe). Eat half of dessert, food, and rap it up with the rest of dessert!!!!!mmmmmm yummy! Only suggestions....do as u please!
2006-07-05 20:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by chichimeca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a great personality? Don't you already have one? Humor would be the only thing I could tell you. The rest is up to you and her.
2006-07-05 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by questionMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have it and its not naturally than don't fake it. A personality isn't something you can make up, it who you are and how you are. Women have fake radars and they will be able to read you really well, if your being fake.
So just be yourself and don't worry about trying to change for a lady.
2006-07-05 20:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you just want to have a great personality altogether???
Obviously she digs you, or you wouldn't be her boyfriend. Just be yourself, and don't, for Heaven's sake, play games.
2006-07-05 20:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Joey's Back 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only to show ur good personality, show who really u r. believeing urself...... that she will alwys be with u no matter what happen in u or the fact about who really u r. let her know u really need her.
2006-07-05 20:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by veer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself towards your gf...
If you want a great personality do it for yourself, so that you can handle it.
2006-07-05 20:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by nsms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid. Just be yourself, you can't change your personality to impress someone, that's just a lack of respect for her.
2006-07-05 20:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Staticx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are right your shouldn't have to change to be with someone.....not when it comes to your personality
2006-07-05 20:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by lilladysip02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋