what qualifies as cheating? sex? oral? kissing? hugging? hand holding? internet sex? porn watching? sexual thoughts of others? lying about meeting someone but nothing happens?
let me know
2006-07-05 20:07:27 · 12 answers · asked by JCCamel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what qualifies as cheating? sex? oral? kissing? hugging? hand holding? internet sex? porn watching? sexual thoughts of others? lying about meeting someone but nothing happens?
let me know ... i know what i believe cheating is, i am looking at others for societies view.
in my Opinion cheating is Lying. if you cant say you watch porn to your BF/GF or loved one, its cheating
2006-07-05 20:21:52 · update #1
If it's enough to hide from your mate then it's cheating. And think about it would you want whatever you're doing to that person to happen to you? If the answer is know then you're probably cheating.
2006-07-05 20:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by lilladysip02 1 · 13⤊ 2⤋
I would say all those except sexual thoughts of others and porn watching. Internet sex is iffy. That would depend if a webcam was involved. When you start lying, then cheating is soon to follow because you would start covering your tracks every time after.
2006-07-05 20:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.
If you wouldn't do it in front of them, then it just might be cheating...
If love is a game, and you are breaking ANY rules or vows you two established or agreed to, then you are cheating at the game, plain and simple. What you do with that knowledge is up to you. If you feel guilty but it's not severe -- looking at porn as opposed to actual sex with someone else -- then sometimes it's best to correct the behaviour and move on, and keep it to yourself.
You have only your only awareness and conscience to rely upon, and if you feel it's wrong, then it probably is wrong for you, wouldn't you agree?
:)
2006-07-05 20:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is cheating except the porn. I'am worried about the fact you that you have to be told this.
2006-07-05 20:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above except porn. and well, i guess thinking sexually about others Sometimes is normal..as long as you dont do it
2006-07-05 20:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Staticx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the state of the mind.
2006-07-05 20:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything other than asexual friendship is cheating (except for thinking and not acting).
2006-07-05 20:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by sirsmoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you cannot tell the truth about is cheating.
2006-07-05 20:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any intimate action that causes you to lie to someone you supposedly love.
2006-07-05 20:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not cheating those are the descriptions of a who*e!!
2006-07-05 20:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋