i really love him and i wanna marrie him but im only 15 and he may leave me im scared what should i do? i love hima nd wanna be wid him.
2006-07-05 19:44:01 · 15 answers · asked by elisa_sanderson 1 in Local Businesses ➔ United States ➔ New York City
ok listen ppl he lives next door to me and we dont plan on gettin married till we are out of school so chill on the answers
2006-07-06 06:32:19 · update #1
LOL wow, so the sex is that good, huh?
Please talk to your parent/s about this.
2006-07-06 05:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think it is a mistake. Being 15, you are too young to get married. Furthermore, you've only known him for a week. How much can you know about a person in a week? Give it a few more years and if he is willing to wait, it's still not too late to marry him, isn't it?
2006-07-05 19:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by d_idealist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE WEEK! 15! Wow! How can you be sure that you truly love him at 15? You haven't lived life yet. You really slow things down and get to know yourself. If you don't you will be making a big mistake. And who proposes after one week? Your boyfriend needs to be checked. Seriously, he may have some emotional issues. Seek help from an adult or a professional. Get help!
2006-07-05 19:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by soulfli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Books before boys,
Because boys bring babies,
Books bring bank!
At your age, the only thing you should be focusing on is graduating highschool, and trying to attend college. You obviously don't have parents or responsible adults in your life to even be contemplating marriage at 15. You need a friend, a mentor, confidant in your life. Please feel free to email me at bamablackberry @yahoo.com. You must be really depraved emotionally in your life to have fallen in what you think is love in one week. If he cares anything about you or your future, he will be enocuraging you to finish school and further your education. If it's true love, IT WILL WAIT. You are emotionally, financially, and socially immature to be considering marriage. Put your energies and focus towards something that will last, and can never be taken from you---an education.
2006-07-05 20:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by bama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should both ask your parents what *they* think... they will give you some real insight! :-)
But really... I understand the allure of marriage at the age of 15... but be a little more realistic. Wait until you are older. If you still love each other then... you can still marry each other then.
And please finish school, because you can't spell, and you will need a job to support yourselves. I don't want anymore of my tax dollars to support people who decide to quit school, get married at 15, and have 25 kids.
2006-07-06 07:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by trollunderthestairs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15 and will probably not listen to others advise ......cause you are young and have no experince in love or relationships. I gaurantee you that you will meet many boys in your life dont be afraid that he is the only one. If its meant to be then he will wait. He is probably afraid of not meeting anyone else or afraid of losing you that why hes asking you so premature.....even though all the people have told you not to do it , you will probably ignore the advice cause thats what young people do . ....prove me wrong. even if you do get married please do listen to this DONT GET PREGNANT. you can always break up but you can never go back once youve had a kid. its natural so dont be ashamed.
2006-07-06 22:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by hello i can help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to those who wait... It is too early for you to think about marriage. There is a world out there for you to see. If he leaves, you wait till he comes back if you really love him. I can tell you that there will be many more that steal your heart. Do not rush into anything, do not let circumstances control your life. You take control and make your decisions.
2006-07-05 19:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly,TX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether marrying this boy is mistake or not i can't say, I donot know him, his character, etc. Neither it seems that you know him too much, his family, his background, etc. You should consult your parents.
But
Marriage in genral is not a mistake.
It keeps one away from immorality. And gives all benefits that wife gets. It also keeps society in good tune.
2006-07-05 20:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by FN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry the man he might be a predator. Do you know his family? Where did you meet him? I don't think you can get married that young in NYT without permission from parents. if he is that great he will wait for you.
2006-07-07 06:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by answers999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 waaaaaaaaaaaaay to young u havent hardly experienced anything u dont really kno him uve only seen each other for like a week BIG MISTAKE TO SAY YES
2006-07-05 19:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by insane3639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear lil girl I think this is the blunder mistake you've ever done in ur life. Dont be so serious abt him.This is not love but mere attraction in this age.you'll see lots of phases in ur life and marriage should not be the one and only thing in ur mind.
2006-07-05 19:52:31 · answer #11 · answered by sixthsense350 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋