she asked about a party with sixteen and seventeen year olds and i am only 12 and they r doing drugs smoking and drinking. there i was happy because i wanted to do it but 2night i dont think i should cause what will happen if i pass out or my friends boyfriend is drunk and so is everyone there and i dont know my way back home. what should help me to get all this per pressure to go away
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2006-07-05 19:43:42 · 15 answers · asked by makala 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Please I beg of you . Do not go to the party. It breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes that a 12 year old would do that. My daughter is going to be 12 in August. I really did not think pre teens started so young. You need to find a new friend, talk to you school counselor and tell her parents. In the long run sheh will help you. First drugs and alchole. Then what is next sex? Sexually transmitted diseases, Pregnancy with a child born with birth defects from all the drugs. She is headed for juvinile hall. You are a smart young teen for coming on here asking for help. If you dont want to tell her parents ask the school couselor to do it. If it is not stopped now it will only lead to bigger and other things. If you are truely her friend make sure he parents know the truth so they can at least try to get her help. Teens who start out that young with drugs and alchole are more likely to become alcholics and drug addicts. You owe it to yourself and friend to get her help. Please I beg of you. If you do not want to do it give me her phone number and I will do it. I am not trying to cause trouble I am trying to stop another teen from overdosing and dieing.
2006-07-05 19:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GO TO THAT PARTY. You are way too young to drink, doing drugs and smoking are stupid at any age, and going to a party with all of those things going on with older kids is just asking for trouble.
I would seriously consider whether you really want to hang out with Cassie while she's doing these kinds of things. I'm not saying she's a bad person, but she's making some very bad, very dangerous choices. Talk to your parents about this, because if she isn't reined in pretty quickly she could wind up ruining her life - or even dying. And you don't want to go down with her.
2006-07-05 19:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so good of you to ask for advice. Be strong, and voice what you think is right or wrong. If you are confident, and say no then you will be the leader in your friendship and hopefully lead your friend away from a harmful situation. Don't be a follower and do things because your friends are doing them. You know what is right or wrong. If your friend doesn't respect you then find some new friends. You will be faced with situations many times throughout your life. It's up to you to make the right choice. There are always negative consequences when we make poor choices.
2006-07-05 19:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is an adventure-I say go for it! Yes, bad things could happen, but it will ad to your personal growth and maturity. Just don't indulge too much. A little here, a little there, it is all good for observational purposes. Why run from fear when you can watch it, learn from it, and understand it. Then you will be more familiar with things others your age have no idea about. Plus, if you ever want to write a book about your life these times will make for an interesting start. Play it say and remember to always put school first! Good Luck!
2006-07-05 19:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do drugs. You are weak if you give into peer pressure that easily. If you want to become a complete dumb A*S then go ahead and do it. But I vote for treating your body like a temple, and that means not doing drugs.
2006-07-05 19:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Entrepreneur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassie is a bad friend and is going to get you ODed, raped or killed.
Being strong and sticking up for yourself is cool, Just say NO & drop Cassie like the bad habit she is.
2006-07-05 19:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by answer annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not difficulty me one bit in any respect what human beings tell others in words of make believe stuf on the following in order that long as they don't get disrespectful and bash me or whatnot. besides my make believe existence is extra acceptable then my real existence.
2016-11-01 07:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. dont lie to your friend. if your feeling like this then probly the best thing to do is talk to your friend & let her know how your feeling. if she doesnt listen to you then you know what kind of friend she is, then its time to get a new friend cuz she's obviously not the kind of person you want in your life. trust me if you dont stand up for anything, then you will fall for everything.
2006-07-06 20:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by supa_fly64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i wouldnt go drugs can really mess you up and maybe you should tell your friend cassie she shouldnt go either
2006-07-05 19:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously way too smart for that stuff. Good for you!
2006-07-05 19:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋