I've written one letter (atleast) everyday to my Marine. Most of them he never sees, it's a present he'll get for his birthday (they started the day of his birthday). But recently we had a fight, I was wondering if it's stupid to keep writing letters even though we may not get over this fight.
2006-07-05 19:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by semper_fidelus07 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Never stop writing letters. Imagine if he stopped writing you. A lot of guys don't want to admit that they love to get letters from their girl, especially someone in the military. When you say "we may not get over this fight" do you mean that it's more than just an arguement? Are you implying that you're honestly not speaking to eachother? You have no contact what so ever? If that's the case you may want to move on. If it makes you feel more productive, keep writing. One day, send them to him, he'll see what all you went through. If, in the end you feel like you still love him, let that be the last letter.
2006-07-06 07:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep writing them. Even if you had a fight, both of you should try to solve any differences in your relationship. Remember he needs support (he's a Marine), and it's NOT stupid to write him letters; it would be stupid if you stopped writing them. So good luck to you and your Marine. ;-)
2006-07-06 02:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by ddeity_inc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, keep writing. Marines love to see letters. Even if you get one a month through to him it will give him a moral boost, even if you two are fighting. You two will get over it, don't worry.
2006-07-06 02:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Entrepreneur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep writing him hum.even if you guys are fighting he'll still appreciate the fact that you care enough to write him every day. One thing you have to remember, it is vary hard for those men and women to be over seas and it is easy to get upset with loved ones easily (and vice-versa)because everyone is edgy. if he dint want to hear from you anymore he would of let you know hun.
a military wife
2006-07-06 15:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Heather W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's stupid at all. soldiers look forward to letters from home. try to stay positive and not argue in your letters. he'll get them eventually but possibly not until well after your fight is over.
2006-07-06 02:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by jbslass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep writing. Just because you had a fight doesnt mean you have to stop loving him. Besides, we men aren't as smart as you women and we always make these kinds of mistakes. So just forgive and forget.
2006-07-06 02:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i was marine scout sniper in iraq i was doing a recon misson when it all went wrong and my spoter was killer i was shot in my back and i was told i would never walk again but i got a letter from my daughter telling me not to give up so i didnt i went to rehab for a year and i am still enlisted in the army and i can walk but i would still be in a whell chair if it wasnt for that letter [ i would love to catch the son of a ***** that shot me and my teammate lets let him rest in peace]
2006-07-06 03:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by some random hobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stupid to keep them. Who knows, what if you do get over the fight?
2006-07-06 02:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by keb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no relationship is without "rocks" if you love him and he loves you the arguement will blow over in time...unless you screwed around on him I am sure things will be just fine...Keep his spirt/hope alive and keep on writting--a little drawing by you and a poem might be a nice touch even if you don't know how to do them well---Good luck
2006-07-06 05:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not stuipid he will get the letters that u wrote to him and every thing will be good again it will mean a lot to him that u was thinking about him while he was gone
2006-07-06 02:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋