I've written one letter (atleast) everyday to my Marine. Most of them he never sees, it's a present he'll get for his birthday (they started the day of his birthday). But recently we had a fight, I was wondering if it's stupid to keep writing letters even though we may not get over this fight.
2006-07-05 19:40:26 · 18 answers · asked by semper_fidelus07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never stop writing letters. Imagine if he stopped writing you. A lot of guys don't want to admit that they love to get letters from their girl, especially someone in the military. When you say "we may not get over this fight" do you mean that it's more than just an arguement? Are you implying that you're honestly not speaking to eachother? You have no contact what so ever? If that's the case you may want to move on. If it makes you feel more productive, keep writing. One day, send them to him, he'll see what all you went through. If, in the end you feel like you still love him, let that be the last letter.
2006-07-06 07:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to get over the fight, then say so in a letter. If you don't, then the fact that you don't write will be enough to make that clear.
Is the fight his fault or yours? Be honest with yourself; did you do anything for which you could apologize? Even if you think it is mostly his fault, you can apologize for "losing your cool," for being bad-tempered about whatever he did, etc. In other words, being unforgiving. Fact is, if the relationship is going to survive, both sides must be good at forgive and forget. If he is not, then tell him that you would still like to hear from him when he "gets over it," and leave him alone.
I'm curious, though; why does he not see most of your letters? And what's this about his birthday?
2006-07-06 02:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During my divorce I wrote ex over a 100 letters. Some of them over a 100 pages long. ALL she will never see. I eventually came to realize that became therapy for me. Just recently I’ve redirected that energy and at times creativity into blog. Nobody will ever read any of it but it is still therapeutic to me.
By the way, no matter what happens, God bless the United States Marine Corp. and God Bless America.
2006-07-06 02:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep Writeing the Letters, if he is over seas. The Letters may mean more to him than you will ever know. It is good to know when he is far from home that someone is thinking about him.... That may make his Day or his week... Keep writeing the Letters. He will thank you someday. And it shows that he is loved and a little love can do a hell of alot of good.
2006-07-06 02:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like writing the letters is more therapeutic for you than him. Keep writing them to express your thoughts. Remember-if it helps you it isn't stupid. You might want invest in a journal. It can really help to get your thoughts about love and life into perspective.
2006-07-06 02:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by questionMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stupid at all, if you keep writing letters through this fight, you can express your feelings in them without having to really talk to him about it and once you have a chance to talk you'll have thought it out
2006-07-06 02:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by splindiferiss_monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I can't imagine how anyone can fight in a letter. Keep writing and keep Jesus number one on your mind. He is the only One that is in control. Read your Bible and the real answers will be found in It. Servicemen and women need our support and nothing negative as they are going through so much as it is. Keep it positive..not intense..Love is pure only when Jesus is first and everything else follows behind.,
2006-07-06 02:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by BONNIE GLASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should write a letter and tell him how you feel about him and how you want to over come your fight. Then like a week later send him all the letters you have writen him and he will greatly appreciate it.
2006-07-06 02:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's a very romantic thing to do and something he can always cherish. It's definitely not stupid. My hubby and I still write to each other... its very romantic and adorable :) Let the fight go, it's not worth it.... keep in mind... what if something drastic were to happen and I never got to say I love you ? Might change your thoughts a bit eh?
2006-07-06 02:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of the smartest move you have made, totally unexpected and will take him offguard completely. When one is in a god forgotten places, a letter will heal all the wounds of the fight and don't be suprised if he rings you up.
2006-07-06 02:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋