I have heard so many people talking about singles that cheat in relationships. This honestly makes me sick! If you are single you should be able to date other people. Duh!!!!!!!! In my opinion a couple shouldn't stop dating other people unless they are engaged and they should still be able to talk to other people until they are married. This is where true commitment comes in. I don't believe in long engagements; in my opinion this is just an excuse to stay single for several years. Why put a ball and chain on single people? Your either married or your not!
2006-07-05 19:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats the problem with staying single and trying to find the right one? Why should we so readily commit?
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2006-07-10 19:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
commitment is not for everyone. not everyone can live upto their commitment. these days people just say i love you to a person so they can screw around with them for a while and then leave them. love has no meaning left to it. why do u think there are so many single moms and there are so many divorces! people these days just say their vows for the sake of gettin married. its like a formality they want to get over with. earlier people used to work out their problems! now its like a small fight and its all over. they go screw someone else and then come back to their ex sayin that they still love them and want to get back and stuff.
thats why people remain single. they dont want to narrow down their options. they just want to keep screwing around with as many people as possible. very few those days are commited. i mean ive heard on tv about people who have been married only a few hours and have had a divorce! they remain engaged for years and then when they finally intend to marry they remain married for a couple of years.
so it all depends frmo people to people and how commited they are!
2006-07-05 19:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by shelldugout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the same pattern will probably hold true after marriage. Why date someone if they are not a candidate for marriage? And how about only having sex with your spouse, after you are married? It's not easy, but it is the best way. Life is much sweeter when you keep your honey only for your honey.
2006-07-05 19:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well these days everyone is going around screwing this person that person... if you really met someone that you cared deeply about you would not want them to see other people.
2006-07-05 20:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋