2006-07-05 19:36:51 · 16 answers · asked by lilladysip02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~~good idea?? not unless there is a marriage certificate there to go along with that rental contract~~
2006-07-05 19:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are, and what your finacial status is, as well as the stability of your realationship. I would have to say though that if you have to ask if it is a good idea, that you are second guesing the situation yourself. When their is doubt, girl pull out! I say don't let your heart stab itself. I moved out of my Mothers house when I was 17 yrs old to live with a boyfriend. It took 5 years to get things even somewhat the same between my family and I. Now, I am 25 years old with 2 children, and about to be married, and trying to struggle with bills, child expenses, and still do not even know how to drive, and am going to colledge online full time to try to build a better future for us. The point, I used to think that freedom from my mother's house was what I needed and wanted, now I know that my so-called freedom was my own entrapment! No more, shoping for myself, reasponsibility, and poverty up the yin yang! If I could do it again, I would still live at home with my Mom, go to colledge their, and have her pay the big bills until I was financially stable!
2006-07-05 19:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetnlow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do think it's a good idea, you been with this guy for 2 years it's not like you just met. I was with my boyfriend for 1 year and we just moved in together 5 months ago, everything is great.
2006-07-05 19:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by angelfacekisses74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love living with my boyfriend we have been together for 4 1/2 years and I started living with him after almost 2 years. I think it is a great idea. It will let you see what you are getting yourself into in case you want to get married to him someday.
2006-07-05 19:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether a good idea or not depends entirely on the current status of relationship. If you have not been in good terms with him/her ... the first thing you must do is to forgive him/her so that you can actually love him/her. If you feel there is no way you can continue with that person, then best is to come out from that relationship. I hope you have come out of it after considering all these factors.
2006-07-05 19:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by saikarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry him eventually don't move in together, it will only take longer. If you don't think you want to marry him, I still wouldn't advise it because it will only make it harder to break up and you may be in the relationship longer that you want to or should be. Keep your own place or make sure you have enough money saved on the side to leave immediately if you want to. Its not very romantic advise but here it is.
2006-07-05 19:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by bebe928 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be good... get to know each other better...
this also can give you a bigger picture of your future with him...
Follow your feelings and do what is right for you...if you feel ready go for it...but if you doubt take it slow..
believe me there is a big different between dating and living with the loved one...
Good luck!
2006-07-05 19:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus-flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a precursor to marriage? I believe in "shacking" if you are preparing for marriage. However, if there are no long, long-term intentions avoid it. Imagine sharing bills, loans,leases, etc. and having no legal recourse to resolve the issues, and you possible being stuck.
2006-07-05 19:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Never a good idea if you're not married, especially after only two years.
2006-07-05 19:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. But if you want to live with him and you have a good relationship, then I don't see any reason not to.
2006-07-05 19:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋