but I am not sure I should tell the woman I am dating..what should I do ? We have been dating for 3 months ...
2006-07-05 19:35:20 · 18 answers · asked by runsane6o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you gay but just don't want to accept it?? Do you play with yourself alot???
2006-07-05 19:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jinx 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on what's been going on so far. If it seems as if you both might like to try making love and include sex as part of it. Then talk it over with her, but don't get all serious, or tongue tied. Try what I did uder different circumstances (more difficult). Say something like, "You may be with the very last of my kind on Earth." And she'll think it's something really wierd, so when you tell her it will be a relief for her, flattering, because you've picked her (the way girls pick "THE" guy sometimes) to confide in and, possibly learn from. I was older than you are and the girl had been divorced - seduced me - didn't take that much, as I really cared for her. Turned out I was better at "it" than she was, even after 6 years of marraige and sure was great. Her husband was a real looser - met the @##%^& She left him out of stark terror!!!
I never had that much experience (did reasearch for what it might be worth --- not that much) and my wife still tells me what a gentle, warm and considerate lover I am (after 23 years). I'm just me. You're just you. Be yourself and, if it's right - it's right!
2006-07-06 03:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by sirsmoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why your a virgin, but so what. Eventually the topic is going to come up and she will have to know somehow. It is better to be honest. If this is the woman you want to be with then you should be able to tell her anything. Don't just spring it on her. look for the opportunity to tell her in a conversation that may lead into that. Otherwise, why bring it up just to tell her. It is not your obligation to tell her this as if you are on some interview and this has to be some sort of qualification. If she really want to be with you it should not matter.
2006-07-06 02:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to come up sooner or later. You might as well open the conversation. She'll respect the honesty. Is she a virgin, too?
2006-07-12 18:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is all how comfortable you feel with her. some women think it is a turn on, taking away virgininity, others may think there is a problem... You have to approach the topic of sex, lightly, maybe if you want to wait until mairrage, or tell her you wanted to save yourself for the right person... ehh.. well, luck with that!
2006-07-06 02:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by kityjane2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, Annette is retarded, so don't pay any attention to her. Who cares if you're a virgin? Go ahead and tell her and I'm sure she'll love it. At least she'll know you don't have any STD's.
2006-07-06 02:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Charles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just be honest with her. After all, relationships are built on love and trust for one another. Just tell her the truth. At least you'd be open with her, and not hiding anything.
2006-07-06 02:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk together about taking the relationship to the next level. first tell her how you feel about her. discuss between one another what you both want out of the relationship. AND TAKE IT SLOWLY. rushing might push her away. CHICKS ARE GOOFY LIKE THAT.
2006-07-06 02:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by jdshelton2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's so bad about telling it? it's gonna come to surface sooner or later, rite? it's absolutely up to you, tho, and u dont hafta tell, if ur not comfy with it, but, then again, ur dating her, she should be understanding no matter what, rite? and, wow, it's not a bad thing at all!!! it's awesome, really!!! i wish i had waited... i prolly wouldnt be so "messed up" if so...lol
props to you, and good luck!!!!
2006-07-06 02:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is a good thing
unless u want to f''k her... tell her
2006-07-06 02:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, if she is a good woman she will understand! If not move on!
2006-07-06 02:37:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋