well im a very very thin gal i dnt look as pretty as d other teens bt theres this guy i like alot coz hes very nice n kind 2 me he really understands me bt i dont think he likes me more than a frnd n i cant lose his frndship by tellin him bt i cant stop thinkin of him wot should i do should i avoid him pls tell me !!
2006-07-05 19:33:51 · 15 answers · asked by sweet_angle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down. first of all teen love hardly lasts long. but i dont want to discourage you from liking the guy. you should just tell him how u feel and since he is ur friend he wouldnt take it seriously. maybe he might be also thinking the same what you are and is scared to tell as well. so just tell him that u really like him not as a friend but dont wanna loose ur friendship with him either. he would understand and would let u knw wat he thinks as well. so relax. it will work out fine .
2006-07-05 19:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by shelldugout 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Thats a really tough one but dont put your self down by sayin your not as pretty. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you could very well blossom and have em all beat in a few years! i did!now as for your problem.Darlin it is always better to let things like this out regardless of what might happen as long as no one will be hurt! and your worse case senario...embarrassment! no biggie,and youll feel much better.it is also the hardest thing to do because you will be vulnerable to him if only for a short time. go for it.trust me you'll be glad!
2006-07-05 19:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really understand u then he must understand that feelings too. Am I wrong??
Anyway if he dont understand that feelings than just have the guts to express ur feelings.. Do not afraid for losing his frnship. If he leaves u just coz of that then he is not worth to be a frn and dont feel lost for that. U'll get better than him.. Dont worry.
Just express. U've the freedom to express.
Good Luck
2006-07-05 19:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bishwaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being thin does not mean ur not pretty
u have got to learn to love urself thats when ppl will start loving u
and well is he nice and kind with every1 or just u??
if u dont think he likes u dont risk losing ur friendship...u'll find some1 else n forget about it
just stay friends
2006-07-05 19:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by icehot_pk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and feel him out. Flirt with him a little and see what happens. If you wait and see how he reacts to you, you'll have a better idea of what to do.
2006-07-05 19:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him...it doesn't mean you'll loose his friendship, the only way you could do that is if he didn't feel the same for you and YOU left the friendship.
2006-07-05 19:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't avoid him. Be your self and you will over come what ever obstacles there may be. be confident and don't let your feelings or someone else rob you of living your life.
2006-07-05 19:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you like him more then a frnd then go with him.if not then keep being good frnds thatyou are.and let him no you dont like him that way.
2006-07-05 19:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by cat yall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow tough one. i told my friend i love him and he told me ok and we are still friends. how long have u guyz been friends if long i think he should understand if short just ty and tell him if it dont work out well im sorry ill pray for u
2006-07-05 19:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by elisa_sanderson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be more flirty with him than usual and keep good eye contact while doing so tell him with your eyes if he don't get the hint and you don't want to tell him straight out just be friends and suffer
2006-07-05 19:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋