okay, i have trust issues with her..... and, idk if i really dont trust her.... but, its mostly just what if's, ya know, and they just eat me alive when she goes places and i know its with other guys and stuff and i dont know the guy's at all..... and, i mean, i even have a problem with some of the clothes she wears, just cause of what if's or it being too revealing.... and, i cant seem to trust her judgement on clothes when she gets them and stuff cause i always think what if shes wearing something skanky..... i trust her with other things though..... just not places, people, and clothing.... which is big enough to drive us both insane.... we both want to be together, and im trying like hell to get over this..... and, i know i cant just not trust someone for nothing.... so, if anyone thinks they might know why i have a hard time trusting her on these things, please help me..... my email is mdrieber00013@yahoo.com, and you can email me if you wish....
2006-07-05 19:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by mdrieber00013 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, is it possible that im so afraid of getting hurt, that i always try to work out the worst case scenario so if it does happen, i will know how to deal with it better? like, idk how likely that is.... but, it was a thought. like, i may be trying to protect myself or something, idk...
2006-07-05 19:19:18 · update #1
ok, she doesnt even dress that bad..... like, she has one or two shirts and shorts.... but, i ask her not to wear them, and she doesnt.... and, i do talk to her about this..... weve been trying to work this out for like 4 months, but im just not making any progress, and its not fair to her.... but, we each see ourselves as worse than the other.... like, she says she hurts me too much, im too demanding of her sometimes....
2006-07-05 19:33:58 · update #2
Listen, you are afraid that she is going to cheat on you with some other dude because of the way she dresses. You are a little insecure, but I dont blame you. You need to tell yourself that if she cheats on you, that it would be her loss if you catch her and there plenty of other fish in the sea. And try not to be so controlling.
2006-07-05 19:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by trader4578 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have control issues, you need to just trust her however much it drives you crazy and release the angry or jealous feelings that you get or you will lose her.
2006-07-06 02:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by scarfiespudsushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sent you an E-mail with some Info
2006-07-06 02:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really try talk 2 her..
2006-07-06 02:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by nikegirlluvsbball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋