I just met this woman and she is the woman of my dreams. We share so many of the same life experiences. She and I feel equal when it comes to caring for one another. We haven't hit that point in our relationship but, I haven't had sex in several months. I feel like she and I will become something but, time hasn't revealed that yet. I feel that I am ready to express my feelings to her in a sexual manner but, I don't want to sound too desperate, perverted or like I am rushing her. What should I do?
2006-07-05 18:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by ceo1callaway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are desperate. Sex is not that important unless your a teenager that has never had it.
2006-07-05 19:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone here has already in so many words said to be patient so I'm not going to say that. I want to make you look at things form her eyesight. If the two of you have a lot in common and you know how she feels about you and you about her and the both of you want something long term, messing things up with sex so early won't make a bit of sense. It truly takes time to get to know a person and once sex is involved the getting to know each other part is out. Then sex has to play a major part in the relationship and once you get tired of that you have nothing left to hold onto. That's why so many people that have a lot in common don't work out so show her what she really means to you by waiting and let her see how special you are for doing so.
2006-07-06 05:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by soul child 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are sounding selfish.. you say you havent' had sex in a while. It would be much better to wait til you know alot about each other than to just spring a situation upon her like that. She may think your deseprate or just out to get her goods. Give it time.. in the meanwhile do what you've been doing best before she even came along. Stay in touch w/ yourself. Unless of course she makes the first move on you then you have no worries.
2006-07-05 19:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by iwannano 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest my husband and I felt the same way about each other when we met. We never did discuss it and we didn't even do anything for a while. When it did happen it was so romantic and a night eithier of us have not forgotten. We can both remember every detail of that night. So I say don't talk to her about it, when the moment is right it will just happen and it will be better than if you discussed it. If you do try and discuss it with her she may be offended and feel like you are just after her for sex.
2006-07-05 19:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right you both will know. There are stages in a relationship that need to be met otherwise it will feel too rushed. So just feel her out about how she feels about the relationship and it will happen in its own time. Perhaps she is feeling the same way. Have her go to a Slumber Party then she will perhaps feel more into it. tiffany.izatt@slumberparties.com www.slumberparties.com
2006-07-05 19:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by SlumberGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying, she probably feels the same way you do.... You shouldn't have to say anything.... Let it happen naturally.... Plan an evening alone, romantic dinner, tell her how you feel about her and it should happen from there.............Romance her and it will happen faster then you think..... Good Luck Romeo......
2006-07-05 19:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just telling them you want to make love doesn't sound right yet, then actually doing it probably isn't right yet either
2006-07-05 19:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by mattsmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked in his eyes and whispered softly "make love to me". That worked well. We're married now.
2006-07-05 19:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋