I'm so use-too buying things for my bf, an telling him how much i love him. But i really want to show him how much i love him. I've helped soo much with his bday party which came out perfect, and got him a bunch of nice gifts. I cook him dinner almost every night, do his laundry, clean, tell him how much he means to me, ect.ect. But it just seems to me, i'm giving him things but not really SHOWING him how much i love him. what can i dooooo? im so lost.
2006-07-05 18:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by Candie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do something out of the ordinary that only you would do for him... i dont mean do something crazy! but do something special... like hwen you cook him dinner, maybe one day, make s SPECIAL romantic dinner (like his favorite food) and light some candles and buy some flowers to decorate the table... make sure its soemthing that he wont forget!
2006-07-05 18:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask Him what makes him feel loved..
Quality Time--This can be expressed either through those intimate tete-a-tete discussions or via doing things together. It's possible to get a low score in this category because you have a strong preference for one form of Quality Time over another.
Touch--You want to give and/or receive affection physically. This may or may not center around sex.
Words of Affirmation--You need to hear praise to know you are loved and you may also prefer to express your affection verbally. Negative comments cut right to the bone. You want to hear that you're loved and how much and why.
Acts of Service--You prefer to show your love through favors and chores and doing things for others. You feel put-upon and unappreciated when your efforts are taken for granted.
Gifts--You are moved by presents and physical tokens of affection. It's the fact that someone is thinking about you enough to give you something that moves you. The objects are of secondary importance to the relationship and sentiment with which they were intended.
(link to Quiz http://www.greaterquest.com/LoveLanguages.asp)(anouther Quiz, http://selectsmart.com/FREE/select.php?client=lovelanguages)
Good Luck
2006-07-05 18:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a dress up day, as in a hottie sexy outfit. Take him out on the town.
2006-07-05 18:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wanna show him?? he should understand ur feeling ?? Love is not showy kindda stuff ......
2006-07-05 18:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by dudefreind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him oral... or an xbox360... unless you already gave him an xbox 360 which only leaves you with one option... (give me ten points please)
2006-07-05 18:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
BJ.
2006-07-05 18:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋