2006-07-05 18:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Clayton B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to know if any childless people have had a change of heart over the years.
2006-07-05 18:42:55 · update #1
I go through phases. In my early 20s I didn't want kids. Then later on in life I was absolutely in the biggest hurry to have them (never did have any) and now I'm content without them and don't know that I want them anymore.
Anyway, the reasons for the changes are just the life circumstances I find myself in. At a time when I'm too busy with work or trying to make my relationship work or I'm just too selfish to have them then I obviously don't want them. But, when I'm at a plateau phase in my life when I feel like I have a handle on things then I feel like I really want them. I'm sure they'll come when I'm in a crazy life mode. Murphy's Law.
2006-07-05 19:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Veronica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told myself that if I didn't have kids ((legitimate mind ya; I was overseas in the military for a while)) by the time I was 35 I would get things snipped, and I did....I just didn't wanna be like 60 when my kid graduated high school and stuff, so took care of it instead...But, I also have 3 awesome nephews that pretty much took a kids place in my heart...
2006-07-06 01:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by code4ten96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want another but I already have three and my oldest is a teenager. I don't want to start over. Plus they already have 3 step siblings for a total of 6 kids in the family. Then, if I get remarried to someone with kids... well, that's enough.
2006-07-06 01:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that i wanna have kids because i dont know if i can hold one i was pregnant when i was 16 and gave birth to my son still born since then i have had seven miscarriages and it has been so hard on me that i aint sure that i even wanna try anymore i guess if it happens for me then it happens but i am done with trying.
2006-07-06 01:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to balance things out. Better future for the kids with small family.
2006-07-06 01:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Frontal Lobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to have kids because I don't feel that I could handle the stress. I know it sounds selfish, but I do like getting my sleep at night and having free time to myself.
2006-07-06 01:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by roxya153 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want them but have chosen not to because i don't want to be nearly a senior citizen when the child would be graduating high school. i need a life, too.
2006-07-06 01:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mensan Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly................NO! Im a 23 year old female, I have 8 nephews and not looking forward to having any kids!
2006-07-06 01:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, my wife & I want kids someday . . . 4-5 years from now. Adopting one would be nice.
2006-07-06 01:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by K!K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The screaming,the throwing of toys,the dirty diapers,
the hours and hours of feeding and changing diapers.
the hours of no sleep. You need to ask this question.
2006-07-06 01:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋