I know stupid...but still....ne ideas.....It's not that he don't love me (duh).....but he is to lazy to pick up the phone and call me.....We have been dating for almost 2 years and he has only called me about 5-7 times or less!! I call him everynight! OMG guys can be so lazy!!
2006-07-05 18:37:45 · 18 answers · asked by Livin_life_09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok for one thing......he loves me and I know he isn't calling ne1 else and I turst him with all my heart!! And another thing it's not like he hates talking to me...!!! Plz no jerkz!!!
2006-07-05 18:55:30 · update #1
Get a new boyfriend!
2006-07-05 18:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie, can I be honest with you, I just hope you dont be angry with me after writing this, but cos you have asked for a help then I can tell you this.
The reason your bf never call you is that you are calling every time. Guys wants the chase they want to do a hard job gaining us gals but if you did it all the time he felt that he can just be lazy. Pal, it doesnt hurt you not to call him but it hurt his ego that you have done it so much. We cannot programme our bf when to call us but give them some homework to do. Let him win you. Any time you want to pick up your phone to call him bite your tounge and call your best buddy instead. The reason you are so focus on your bf is because he become your everything, and when you are in that place guys dont like it and you become less attractive but when he knows that you are enjoying your life without him he have a tention that you are slipping from him and if he really loves you the he will keep running after you but if he is gone then it means he is just using you. Keep your head my dear. Be a woman. Be pursued not the one who pursue, then you will enjoy being a woman to the highest level. Please read the book a surrenderd single. Or login into the website www.surrenderedsingle.com. I know you will gain victory. I am much happier now with my boyfriend overseas, He knows I love him but He knows I enjoy mylife so much without him that He said He is scared that when one day He will propose I would not accept it cos I enjoy my life so much. Cheers dear. Let me know if it works for you
2006-07-06 01:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by edith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I got the perfect solution for you!
Yes, you need to stop calling him and stop seeing him for a few days, that will certainly get his attention. Guys dont like routines, they like things to be unexpected. When you stop calling him he will wonder why and how come you're not calling him. Soon enough he will be calling you in no time, I guarantee you it will work. You need to purchase this book which is soo true and the advice works like a charm. Its called Why Men Love Bitches.
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2006-07-06 06:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, i hate to tell you but there is no such thing as being to lazy to call someone you love. Only 5-7 calls in 2 years? If I had to do something to get my bf to call me, I would not want him to. He should want to call you on his own. You need to wake up and smell the coffee. He doesn't call you simply because he doesn't want to. Stop calling him and see how long it takes to call you.
2006-07-06 01:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really why are you constantly calling this guy? Stop calling all together and wait and see what happens Mr.Telephone will certainly pick up the phone. And if he doesn't well he isn't worth it and there is somebody out there who is.
2006-07-06 01:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by rottenkid4560 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, leave a message on the answering machine that might make him, want to call you back. Then ask him to call you, once and awhile. men are supposed to call after a date. If after a month or two, he still doesn't call, give him an alutimatium but hope you don't have to carry it out.
2006-07-06 01:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you call him, the more needy you seem, the less he feels like talking to you. if he knows youre gonna call him everyday, why should he call you. dont pester him about it. back off. men are like rubber bands. if you let them stretch and have some man time, he will bounce back a happier guy. if you act needy, he will feel like you dont have faith in him, and thats an insult. be confident in your guy and let him come to you sometimes. it will show him that you trust him and wont crumble if you dont talk to him every five seconds
2006-07-06 01:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Calling Him.
2006-07-06 01:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by martinithief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, this is a no brainer, if your doing all of the calling, trust me, there is a big problem, and the problem is him, I would drop him like a bad habit.lets get real he must be calling someone else. need I say more. come on now.Im sure you can do much better.
2006-07-06 01:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by little mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this summer ive been having the same problem. he forgets to call me bak and when i call him, hes busy. i know he loves me though. wow, we have the same dillemma. we have been dating for almost 2 years and this summer he has called me probably called me 5-7 times. listen, maybe bugging him about it through email will get the message through. thats what i was gonna try. good luck!!! *and wish me some*
2006-07-06 01:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by jedi_kt13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Talking on the phone is counterproductive to your relationship. Instead, spend time together. When you are not together, have no contact. This makes your time together special.
2006-07-06 01:47:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋