My boyfriend of 2 months has been acting alittle weird lately.. and im not sure if he wants ot break up with me. He tells me he wants to be with me for a long time, but then he acts weird sometimes, and its not like a "Im a dork" werid its like a weird weird like somethings wrong, but then when i asked him he says nothing... what do i do if i know somethings wrong but he wont tell me?
2006-07-05 18:32:48 · 23 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some more time and space.Things will get back to place.Dont worry.
2006-07-05 18:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by satan's_angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant react or respond if you do not no what the problem is. Like he says there is nothing wrong so now you need to check out why you think there is something wrong. Maybe his behaviour is normal for him after all 2 months does not make you an expert re his behaviour, perhaps you have moved on in your relationship past the honeymoon phase where we seem to present a "different" image of ourselves to some degree as part of the courtship process. If he says nil is wrong then accept it you cant be responsible for everyone's behaviour. Just establish a sort of relationship that allows him to feel that should he need to he can speak to you about anything and vice versa. If there are certain aspects of his behaviour that unsettle you then you need to discuss this with him, not ask him what is wrong but tell him your concerns re his weird behaviour. It opens a line of communication between you.
2006-07-05 18:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to ask yourself are you happy with the way things are now. If your boyfriends is acting weird and you feel like somethings wrong. Guess what. Something is wrong. My guess is probably that he has found himself another girlfriend but he can't bring himself to tell you that he wants to end the relationship because you are a really nice girl and you have been nothing but kind and nice to him. You've only been with him two months so my best advice to you is to get rid of that zero and find yourself a hero. I'm sure there are hundreds of guys out there looking for a good woman such as yourself. Remember effective communication is a necessity in all relationships. If he doesn't want to talk to you then there isn't really much hope for the relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-05 18:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been dating him for 2 months, that's not a lot of time to get to know him. You sound fairly insecure with this relationship. Maybe he is having some difficulties with his family, schooling or job. Or maybe you are just imagining things.
If you truly think that he wants to break up, then straight out tell him what your concerns are. Instead of asking him if something is wrong, clearly state what you've noticed that is odd. Usually if you are upfront and direct, you'll get a better response then when you try to beat around the bush.
Don't play emotional guessing games by testing him to see how he responds if you stop contacting him, etc. That is more damaging to a relationship then anything else. Honesty truly is the best policy. Just be straight with him.
2006-07-05 18:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by TMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be nervous. Whatever the case, you need to talk to him. Tell him you don't want to sound needy but it's really bothering you.
And if nothing else yes just give him some space. If it makes you feel any better Im having a similar problem with my girlfriend, and I wasn't sure what to do about it either. Just give them space.
2006-07-05 18:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time when its something a person can't talk about its to spare your feelings , maybe he's just trying to tell you that he's still with somebody else and he's feeling the guilt from it , and he really wants to be with you but he's having a hard time letting go of the past relationship , sometimes there are old things that need to be takin' care of first before they can move on
2006-07-05 18:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Stormy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tell Him You've Been acting really strange around me( even ask him if he wa seven thinking about breakinh up with u u have to know that stufff) See if anything is bothering him at school that could be interfearing with u
Good LUCK Hun.....<3
~Taryn
2006-07-05 18:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur being a bit needy, pull away from him and see if he follows u. it's all about the gap, if he is creating one, don't u make the effort 2 close it in. either he will come back, or he is intentionally pulling away. neediness comes when one person is always pulling back and the other person is always skooting closer to tighten it back. ignore him a few days and hang with your girlfriends. try the jealousy ticket for a while n see if it works.
2006-07-05 18:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Lips 4077 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i assume that particularly relies upon. Is she appearing that way reason you have been being to clingy, did she permit you recognize you have been? by way of fact if no longer there might desire to be another difficulty you do no longer know approximately. I had a clingy boyfriend as quickly as and it drove me nuts. i could no longer pass to the bathing room without him asserting he might omit me. i ultimately instructed him he mandatory to supply me some area. no longer that i wished to be certain human beings yet that we did want a life that did no longer constantly incorporate one yet another. you recognize a chum i will turn to whilst his and my courting hit a bump that does no longer have an issue with being on my part:) in my opinion i think of you may desire to talk over along with her sometime quickly and ask her if there's an issue. If she does not want to declare something than you are able to ask if she thinks your being to clingy. She won't want to break your thoughts and it will destroy the ice for her to talk to you approximately it. Then the two certainly one of you are going to be able to desire to talk cases and procedures which you will supply her some area. i do no longer think of being an asshole is a sturdy thought. Being open, straightforward, and wisdom with one yet another is a lot extra helpful. good luck:)
2016-12-10 05:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may jsut have so Issues he needs to work out, and now that he is geting relaxed in the realationship there are getting harder to hide.. and there may be nothing wroung in his mind. But just talk to him and find out what he needs from the reationship. It maybe that he is scared, or needs space. Just be open with your feelings and if it is ment to be it shall be and if not then it will not work..
Good Luck
2006-07-05 18:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like this relationship will last..but if you are curious, ask his mom what could be wrong or one of his buddies. Tell them you're concerned for him and he won't confide in you. well, his friend may not tell you, but it's still worth a try.
2006-07-05 18:36:10 · answer #11 · answered by It's me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋