we broke up in Feb and i went out with 2 other guys and i didn't see him that whole time so i thought i was over him but i saw him this weekend and i still want him how the heck do i get him back?
2006-07-05 18:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is really impossible for anyone to give you accurate advice without knowing the grounds for your break up. However, effective communication is key in all relationships. If you want him back you should just call him and tell him how you feel. If he rejects you then move on. It may hurt a little at first but at least you'll know that the relationship really is over. If he is not the one then that means God has someone even better out there for you. Keep your head up kid. This is the Caveman signing off and laying down his club. Peace.
2006-07-05 18:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Guys don't like games and can't read minds from my experience. Tell him you've looked around and you still are into him. Come out and say it, give him time to think, and see what happens. If that doesn't work, you haven't wasted months playing games and you'll have an honest answer.
2006-07-06 01:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Badger25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasn't showed any signs of wanting you back is uggest you move on. if he has then sex is always the quickest way. tease him so that he is tempted. meaning don't give it to him right a way wait 2-4 weeks after yall start talking again. first probe him for answers so yuo can get a feel of were his mind is right now. good luck
2006-07-06 01:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, beg him for another chance, agree to anything, do somethings for him, you didn't even consider doing, last time. Behave for him. The only thing that would prevent you is, if he has a gf and is happy with her. If he does but isn't happy with her as his gf, or if he doesn't have one, he might be interested in you, too.
2006-07-06 01:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up with him? Call him and tell him you made a mistake, the worse that can happen is that he can tell you that he is no longer interested. If he broke off with you he is obviously not interested so, look elsewhere....
2006-07-06 01:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your reasons for breaking up in the first place, if those reasons are still valid, do not go back or try to go back with him.
2006-07-06 01:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting to talk to him
tell him to meet you somewhere and tell him how you feel
maybe he feels the same way too
if he doesn't then don't bother
you know that whatever you try he won't fall for it
so just give up on him
you will find someone else
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-06 01:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, rarely does it ever happen. If you need some more time to grieve, then take it. But, don't desperately go after something that is probably dead and buried. It only leads to more frustration and heartache
2006-07-06 01:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want him back? You did break up, there must be a reason why that happened. Think carefully, good luck.
2006-07-06 01:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't do it. You broke up for a reason. Stay that way.
2006-07-06 01:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋