2006-07-05 18:13:11 · 27 answers · asked by Gunrunner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Two of my nieces have confided in me that it is being done to them by their stepfather
2006-07-05 18:39:14 · update #1
No, because it's demeaning to her to bare her bottom. You don't want to degrade her. Spanking is one thing, but this is something else.
2006-07-05 18:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No. My dad spanked me on my naked bottem once for getting the bathroom floor wet. I remember it to this day, let's just say, and it didn't help at all. All it did was give me a bad memory of my dad. it wasn't until he took the time to tell me how I should keep it dry and why that I actually did it.
2006-07-06 01:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by aj64wutup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bare bottom? Nah....you'll open yourself up to getting told on by the kid and you then can expect politically correct Child Service visits and possible head-achy legal woes that can go with it.
Spank the kid? Well, if what she did merits one, that's your own call as a parent. If you do, don't go overboard with it. If the kid's under 5 years of age, try loosely rolling up a news paper or magazine: it's pain-free, but the "swat" sound can send the message without "damaging" the child's "tender psyche".
2006-07-06 01:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T LISTEN TO THOSE FOOLS WHO SAY DON'T SPANK YOUR CHILD. A CHILD WHO WAS NEVER SPANKED AND TURNED OUT OK WAS BORN WITH GOOD BLOOD. SOME CHILDREN HAVE BAD BLOOD AND IF YOU DONT SPANK THEM WHEN THEY NEED IT THEY WILL BECOME WORSE. YOU DON'T NEED THE BARE BOTTOM APPROACH. THOSE WHO SAY THAT A CHILD DOESNT GET THE MESSAGE WHEN THE CHILD IS SPANKED IS CRAZY. ABOUT THE BATHROOM WET EXAMPLE--THAT CHILD WAS BORN WITH GOOD BLOOD AND WAS SENSITIVE. SHE DISIKES HER FATHER FOR A SPANKING? SHE'S NUTS TOO.
THERE ARE POSITIVE WAYS OF PERSUASION AND NEGATIVE ONES. ALWAYS TRY THE POSITIVE BUT IF THAT DOESNT WORK LET THEM HAVE THE NEGATIVE ONE. BUT KEEP THE LOVE. DONT HIT AND FORGET. TALK TO THE CHILD. FIND OUT WHERE THE BLOOD IS.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-06 01:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion no one should ever spank their children on Naked butt if that is what you mean. It is humiliating for the child. I spank my children and Never on bare bottom.
Discipline is the key. Humiliation is not discipline.
2006-07-06 01:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by j_elam22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bare bottom spankings shouldn't be wasted on children!
2006-07-06 10:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he shouldnt, there should be no reason to pull down a childs pant to spank them, if you go the spanking way then you should not have to take off anyones clothes to do it. anyway thats not ok.
2006-07-06 01:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. This could be a sign of pedophilia on his part, or if not, someone might think so and report the dad to the authorities. It is a dangerous situation anyway you look at it.
2006-07-06 01:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never did.A lil' smack or 2 on the back of her leg should suffice if she's still in diapers.Of course most of the time a good stare & tone of voice was enough for my kids.
2006-07-06 01:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experts suggest no spanking it only intimidates the child it doesn't help the child learn proper behavior! get a book on child care!! it will help
2006-07-06 01:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by shasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋