i have a boyfriend for two years but things with him have been not so good. i met this other guy who has treated me better then anyone else has before. things with us were short but way too sweet. things with the new guy ended cuz he got a change of heart. i told him once since then that i still like him he doesnt want me back. WHAT do i do? do i stay with my boyfriend or try to get the other guy? how do i get the other guy back?
2006-07-05 18:08:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same thing happened to me. its much better with the one that treats you better
2006-07-05 18:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend that you meet that new guy. He will get a little jealous, if not then you know there is nothing there. Stay with the one you have. Your reputation as a girl is worth for your own good. If you are going to change do it right don't just dump one for another. You are not a Cd-player who needs to change batteries all the time.
2006-07-06 01:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Pblo... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get the new guy back as long as you are involved with another guy. If things are not so good between you and your boyfriend, why continue the relationship? It's time to move on, maybe the other guy will come back if you are free.
2006-07-06 01:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not that intrested in your boyfriend you probally dont need to keep him cuz when he finds out your cheating then hes going to be really hurt! The other guy doesnt want you apparently and theres not one way you can change a guys mind! Find a new guy!
2006-07-06 01:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Alyissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. If you're cheating on your boyfriend, neither of you should be in a relationship with each other. If the other guy doesn't want you, then there's no real way of getting someone back. They either want to come back or they don't - but pressuring them into a relationship is just going to push him away.
2006-07-06 01:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of them both. The one you are with obviously isn't right or you wouldn't be looking. The other one does not treat you as well as you think, or he would still be around. Though you have to question someone who is willing to be with you when you have a boyfriend. Does that mean he doesn't take monogomy seriously?
2006-07-06 01:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any new guy u meet will treat u good cuz he wants something out of it, its the same way your boyfriend treated u when u fell fro him....stick with the boyfriend....uve put more into that relationship and its not over......something new will just leave u with nothing
2006-07-06 01:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by SAVAGEXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt try to get the other guy back but you should try to work things out with your boyfriend, or try new things....or on the other hand you could break up with him and you could see if he truly wantd to be with you by calling you still.(ALOT) but i've been threw it 2 times in the past 2months and me and my boyfriend decided to do things differently
2006-07-06 01:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by punkey_monkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stranger, I was in the same boat. My ex. dumped her ex. husband for me than two yrs. later she ran back to her ex. husband. I was very hurt in the beginning but, with help with family and old friends that I ran into got me over that hurt feeling. If my ex. really wants me back she will have be trusted to the fullest for starters. I will always love her and her son but, it will take alot for us to be back how things were before. I will have to say alot "trust" for my answer and alot of talking things over.
2006-07-06 01:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Michael K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question - you are looking for someone who treats you with respect and is in to you. Why not look at another gene pool and keep your options open.
2006-07-06 01:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by john f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. Decide who YOU really wanna be with, not people you've never even met before. Just go with the flow.
2006-07-06 01:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Spiral Out 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋