I really like this guy who was in my English class last year. We got along perfectly, flirted all the time, hung out occasionally...etc. I told him that I liked him and he kind of blew me off. Stopped talking to me and everything. Then his friend told me that he saw me as "just friends". If his mind is already made up about me, is there any way to change that? Should I ask him out on a date? Should I just leave him alone? Or what??
2006-07-05 17:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by mlove1307 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't torture you self honey! "Just friends" means, "You are a nice girl, but don't expect anything more then a smile and occasional hug from me honey." Sorry to be so blunt to you babe, but would hate to see you waste time and energy to only get burned later.
You sound like a great girl. If this guy cannot see that, there has to be another one at your school who does!
2006-07-05 17:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by rhino 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i sounds like u had a good relationship with him. u may have scared him a little bit. slowly, gain your relationship back. first just say hi or something when u see him. then chat now and then when u see him. do this for a few weeks or when he feels more comforable around you. then treat him as u did before. if he blew u off the first time, it just shows how slow he wants to take your relationship. i know it takes a long time. if u really like him that much, than go for it. good luck.
2006-07-06 00:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Carley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel in my opnion u shld just live him alone nd find sum1 better 4 you. if u r lucky who nos u might just fine ur prince charming. frm now once he has told u that he c's u as just a frnd, u shldn't be waiting 4 him, m sure ull find ur sole mate soon. BEST OF LUCK
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2006-07-09 09:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Kool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. I f u push it he'll quit thinkin of u as friends.
2006-07-06 00:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by ~Redneck*Woman~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone find someone better
2006-07-06 00:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by chops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think that you should hang out sometime. That is not asking him out and if he is interested, then he will be able to ask you out. If not, then he will not ask you out and you did not ask him out and you lost nothing.
2006-07-06 00:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He must not be instredted.
2006-07-06 00:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by InNamorato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, or keep hurting yourself. If he was right for you, well, gee, he's probably want to see you, yes?
2006-07-06 00:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by citizanspeech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and contact me !! may be I can be your....
2006-07-08 03:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋