Shouldn't it be your chioce/ it's not like we're living in a perfect world. Hurricanes, missill launches, idiot and rediculous presidents, hatred, bigotry, violence, massive unemployment, loniness, despair... life sucks. My life sucks. Being gay and alone and hated sucks. Actually, being gay is great, but the pain and rejection my go through through. Is it really a big deal? Am I crazy? If not suicide, what about just starting over?
2006-07-05 17:31:48 · 26 answers · asked by urbania05 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
the big deal is without you the world would be empty and you are giving in to those who can,t except you.you are who youare.yes,i know the loniliness hurts and sucks.
life hurts and is hard.
you are apart of what makes this world compltet please don,t give up!you have alot to offer.you are not crazy/give your self permissionm to be loved and love by all.whoever doesn,t love for who you are the one losing out by the way from someone who just finding out i am too finding myself and realise dtwo weeks ago i am more comfortable with women the n men.be brave ok
2006-07-05 17:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When suicide seems like the only way out, you are clinically depressed. You need to talk with a psychiatrist right away. There's no turning back from suicide. I have taken care of many patient's and a husband who attempted suicide, and not one of them was sorry they hadn't succeeded. Sometimes, when life really sucks, it seems we can't pull ourselves out of it by ourselves. Get help, there's no shame in feeling as you do, but there is hope for you. You sound young, and that makes problems seem insurmountable, but given time and help, life will look brighter. Just starting over, really isn't the answer, because it doesn't address your depression, or the factors causing your depression. After you call a psychiatrist, get help in finding a support group. You'll see that you aren't alone. If you don't know a psychiatrist, you can call a hospital to ask for a referral, or call a suicide hot line, and they can help guide you. Don't throw your life away, you can feel happy again. It'll take time and work, but YOU'RE WORTH IT! Good luck to you, and please find a psychiatrist...not a psychologist, at this point.
2006-07-06 00:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by brnized 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard but life needs pain to be worthwhile. It's a cliche but it's true. Think about it.
Plus suicide is just another way of making a painful world even worse, maybe not for you, but certainly for those you leave behind. I'm certain someone out there loves you for who you are (a parent, a friend), do you really want to cause them pain? What about the people you haven't met yet and will lose out by never knowing you? Every life is worthwhile.
As for you being gay, know that a lot of people out there has been what you're going through. The people that hate you and miss-treat you for your sexual orientation are morons and are not worthy of knowing you.
I don't know where you live, but please consider calling a suicide help line. Sometimes just talking with someone helps.
2006-07-06 00:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Epicarus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a bad idea because when you kill yourself you aren't just throwing away the bad stuff you are throwing away the good stuff too. Furthermore you are hurting someone even if you think nobody cares about you. Someone does or could if you gave them the chance. Finally, someone is going to have to clean up after you. Even if you just take poison and lie in bed your blood will sink down to the lowest part of your body and leak through your skin and soak the bed and probably the floor. Most cleaning services won't clean up after a suicide and whoever has to deal with it will have to pay a fortune to a special company. Everybody's life sucks from time to time. You have to go through the sucky times to get to the good times. If your life was a movie the sucky parts would be the most interesting part and the audience would hardly be able to wait to see what happens next. Hang in there and see what happens next.
2006-07-06 00:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone--you are gay and that is hard to deal with when you are feeling alone, but you are not the only one. Nothing wrong with being gay, and the older you get the more you will see that people who really matter in your life are the ones who love and support you for who you are--not how or who you choose to have sex with---yeah, there is a lot of sh+t that is bad in the world, but there is a whole lot more good. Why not go and volunteer at a children's hospital--there you will see how even those who are in the most pain can put on a happy face and make others feel good. you are not crazy, you just need to get out of the rut of desperation you are in and force yourself to do something outside of your comfort zone that might just make you feel great about yourself for helping others. good luck. you will be in my thoughts.
2006-07-18 17:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it is a choice, but it's a choice that's a dead end. It doesn't solve any problems, doesn't make anything better for anyone else, and in the worst case makes the world even worse than it already is.
No, you're not crazy. You're depressed and upset.
Starting over is a much more viable option. There'll always be pain and rejection as long as we live in this very sad world, but there's good stuff that we can enjoy as well.
Talk to someone, a counsellor, therapist, whoever. it really helps.
2006-07-06 00:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by amy_butterflyblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really qualified for anything, but I do have to say, don't ever just give up.
yeah, things might suck right now, but it wont always stay that way. if you really can't handle anything rather than give up completly via suicide, start again. A new school, job, whatever. get to a point where nobody knows you and start fresh. that way it's not so much coming out as what you start with.
But really the best person to talk to about this is either a really close friend, or a psychiatrist. nothing's worth losing your life over.
2006-07-19 03:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My grandmother used to tell me that God never puts more on you than you can bear. I have been to hell and back in the past 5 years or so and although at times I have wondered if life was worth living I took it as a learning experience. What hasn't killed you will only make you stronger. There will always be someone who's life is worst than yours. So grow up, stop running from your problems and start looking for some reasonable solutions!!!
2006-07-19 15:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Special L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking seriously about suicide is a sign of a problem. It could be a simple as depression. You shouldn't purposely do something to your body that is harmful. Despite all fo the rejection you have been through, there are people who love you and will always love you. The thing about life is that it does not have to be lonely and full of dispair...
2006-07-06 00:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by q2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
starting over sounds better. I am not gay but i am engaged and im only 16 and i am 2 months away from having a baby... i feel fine, you just need people who know how to accept you the way yu are. Im me if ya need someone to talk to. Im always up for listening and giving advide or maybe even just chatting if that will make ya feel better. Good luck
hey.. your gay
and im white
and pregnant
so the * what
its just a lable
2006-07-06 00:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋