i was married before, but it turned sour...now we are seperated and he is living with another girl...we have two kids, i am not living with another man yet, but i am dating different men...a long term relationship doesnt appeal to me anymore..but i am dating someone right now who is two years younger than me but he has a son with a girl younger than him but they are not married.....i really like him but, i dont want to live with him, or be called as his girl, but we go out, stay out in a hotel overnight...but i think i am falling for him...i dont know if he is serious for me....is having sex with him always will make our relationship grow?do you think i will end up being a trash because i do't go for a real long lasting relationship?
2006-07-05 16:57:25 · 4 answers · asked by glenz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because society still has this lovely double standard that women can't sleep around, but guys can, you feel like you shouldn't be doing what you are. Let me tell you - don't listen to society. You have been through a very traumatic thing. If you don't want a relationship, then you don't want one. And it sounds like you are doing everything right concerning your respective children and avoiding getting them involved. The most important thing is to be upfront with him that you don't want a relationship. Then - get yours, darlin'.
2006-07-05 17:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow! Follow your heart and see where it leads, if it isn't to a long term relationship then just enjoy the physical while it last! Who knows maybe you will both come to realize that you want to grow old together and spend the rest of your lives together!
Also, until you decide you are committed leave the kids out of it!
AND, the X should not matter! Who cares what he is doing or who he is doing he is the X!
2006-07-06 12:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is follow your heart! That would make you happy =)
2006-07-06 00:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i hav to say is do ur thang girl..:)
2006-07-06 00:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by saleemshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋