Is This Normal?

Question

Hey. I am 13 years old and I need to know the answer to this. and please, no smart-alek responses, this is serious. I often think about sex, I have made out with plenty of girls, and I masturbate frequently. Is this normal for a person my age?

I hit puberty 2 years ago and I have had protected sex twice.

I have also had anal sex 4 times.

All of the chicks I banged were pretty Fu**in' hot too.

And sorry, the habit isn't exactly fresh, either.

P.S. I am Whacking off to some porn right now...

Answer 1

Yes.....because your going fully through puberty now and your testosteron level is increasing. It's just a body response because your body is telling you that your ready. It's not just a mind thing anymore. Think about it. Now I am not saying for u to go around and have sex to recover yourself from feeling this way I am just saying it's normal and ur not the only guy teen out there I bet u anything your guy friends are probably going through the same things. *Their just to shy too say prolly =)* oo yeah one more thing.....I heard this from a friend so I dunno how true it is....but if u masterbate frequently it is supposed to help prevent cancer down there....I dunno how true it is but I would read up on it.....=) laterz 1

Answer 2

It may be normal for most, but masturbation is not a good thing, no matter what people may say. It gives you the chance to fantasize, and if you do it long enough, you fantasize about other people when you are having sex with one person. Do you think that it really means something special or meaningful when you are having sex if you are thinking about doing that with someone else? I would suggest stopping the habit while it's fresh, if it is. Stop anyway though! It will save you from some future problems.

Answer 3

Haha, it's super normal. You'll probably be like that um... for the rest of your life. Hah, you're becoming a man. Poor you. Be sure and remember that it's not all about sex. Women hate men like that. Anyway, don't think you're abnormal! Boys and girls all think about sex. All the time. Not a big deal. Nobody cares. Just don't do it till you're married, Kiddo.

Answer 4

Yes,it'd be ABNORMAL if you didn't. Just make certain when you DO have sex,it's safe sex,and with someone special. Kids are having sex too early these days. I lost my viriginty at 14,wish I had waited,it's not that big a deal,and you've got your entire life to enjoy it,enjoy other things now

Answer 5

In this time.. yes its normal .. but you need to wait a few years before you get serious about any girls or actually have sex with them.

Answer 6

its normal for your age but u should be doin making out wit kno gurl until u have a decent job cuz what if the condum slip of and she not taking no birth control pil then u have a baby how r u going to raise it and if u cant do that it going to be put in a foster home

bye

Answer 7

yes it is normal so don't feel strange i truly believe that it's better to masturbate then just going out there and having sex. take ur time before you sleep with anybody. it's not because people will say that u are to young it's more like sex mess with people emotions.

Answer 8

Yes it is normal and it is safer! Keep it at making out and when you do decide to go further, hopefully in a few years at least, make sure you wear a condom to protect against STD's and pregnancy. Just because you don't think it will happen to you, it doesn't make you invincible.....be careful!

Answer 9

Yes. Its perfectly normal. Your becoming a man and men think about sex alot. Its ok to masterbate as long as your not hurting anyone or presuring girl to have sex.

Answer 10

Yes, just don't go having sex yet. You should wait untill you are a a couple of years older at least.