If you see a guy, and you think, "Geez, he is a handsome guy, if i was a girl, i would be water at the knees"
2006-07-05 15:46:33 · 35 answers · asked by Mehrunes Dagon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not gay. I'm gay and when I see an attractive female I look and tell my friends I may be with that she is a fine looking woman. That does not make me heterosexual. Now if you look at his crotch and say or think, I would love to get to that. That would mean your gay or bi. But just seeing the beauty of anyone does not make you gay. There are females that say other females are hot looking, but that does not make them gay. Nothing wrong with your thinking so do not let anyone tease you into thinking something maybe wrong with you cause there is not. Never let anyone control your thoughts.
2006-07-05 16:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No thats not really gay, you are just bicurious. Girls are the same they look at another girl and think that she has a nice rack or something. If that was gay then everyone would be called gay to a degree because we have all thought of someone our same gender as cut, sexy, or fine. So no you are not gay and even if you were there is nothing wring with that just as long as youre happy with your decision and u did it 4 yourself and not anyone else.
2006-07-05 15:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Aries Iz Me ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you have to be completely gay or completely straight. Some are but studies show the vast majority of people fall somewhere in between whether they want to admit it or not. There is nothing abnormal about appreciating the good looks of a person of the same sex. Lots of "straight" men and women do. If it worries you see a counselor.
2006-07-05 15:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by pyro_alchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I find my self staring at chicks a lot, and it’s because I envy their better body, or their nice hair etc. it’s normal, if you started day dreaming and thinking about them a lot, then yeah you may have a problem buddy. But there’s nothing wrong with being gay no matter what any one says, they just scared of people who are more unique than them..
2006-07-05 15:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not totally sure, I get the same thoughts about women. I think it's fairly normal, we like to look at pretty things. If I start to think," man i wish i could...", I step back a little. But it's never over powered my longing for a penis.
2006-07-05 15:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.....I have a guy friend that says stuff like that all the time...he's also quick to point out all the good looking chicks !!!!
Guys are just naturally afraid to appear GAY!!! I say LOOSEN UP!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-05 15:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not gay if u c a guy and think about what he would be like in bed or how he would kiss or so on now that is when u should b wondering is it gay
2006-07-05 15:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with recognizing attractiveness in other guys. Just don't give them your number. Cause that would be gay.
2006-07-05 15:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you or anyone starts a sentece by saying, " Is it gay".
That will always be a YES!
Man law 101!
2006-07-05 15:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what ? do you mean if you thought the guy that walked by was cute but it was really a girl no thats not gay
2006-07-05 15:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋