2006-07-05 15:41:19 · 23 answers · asked by Toya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Toya you sound just like me...that is - before i got married!
No you should not give up, what you should do is stop looking to be in a relationship and start enjoying your own company.
Thru my years of dating many dudes and needing a boyfriend 24/7, i finally got hit w/ the fact that if i can be happy by myself then everything else will fall into place, i.e.its quality not quantity as they say.
I took a break from the dating seen and did what "I" wanted which made me happy then low and behold I met my husband, 6 weeks later we married and its a blast!
Try it, what have you got to lose?
Then when you least expect it.....expect it! and good luck!
2006-07-05 17:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way:
1. Every relationship you ever have will end...except for the one that doesn't. That may sound stupid or simplistic, but it's true.
2. It's better to figure it out earlier than later when it's not working. That lets you move on to the next, hopefully better, relationship more quickly.
2006-07-05 15:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up how? dig a hole and pull the dirt in after you? you do not give up! evaluate your past relationships and try to find a common denominator between them . in other words were there some similarities between the guys? what irked you ? or them? if you broke up with them ask yourself why. you just have to live and learn girl you will eventually come across the one you will spend more than three months with. probably six .lol good luck and never ever ever give up.
2006-07-05 15:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No DONT GIVE UP if you give up then you will never find the right guy just stop looking for the person they will find you just take a break from dating maybe for a bit and sooner or later you will find the right guy for you
2006-07-05 15:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, actually before you starts a relationship you have to think about the pro and cons. I know that maybe you want to start a relationship because you want to share the feelings with the person. but dont to hurry to start a relationship. you have to know each other. when the time comes you will get the true love.
think wisely.......
2006-07-05 15:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by zaidos83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't chase after them.
Write down the person you want in your life.
Then wait.
THEY will come to you.
My wife wrote down a description of me at age 9.
We then met at age 16. Got married at age 18. Married for 32 years.
2006-07-05 15:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down with your ex(s) and ask them how they would rate you as a girlfriend....
You might not like what you hear, but at least you will find out what you need to work on. Especially if each guy states the same negative traits.....
2006-07-05 15:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, maybe you need to find out what you are doing wrong or why the other person is not up to speed with what you want, possilby you are looking for one thing and getting what you are not seeing up front. ask your closest friend what they see in you relationships, and why they all fail. Maybe they will have insite.
2006-07-05 15:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be you may expect to much or you kmight get into things to quickly or it just could be the wrong guys your meeting,i think you should stop looking for a guy to be in your life and just take a back seat and wait for your one true soal mate to come your way then you will have no regrest the only one is that it will be for life when you do finally get to be with him,it wont be long untill you stop looking thathe will come your way
2006-07-05 15:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take a break form relationships for a while. Then, when u start up again, you'll have a new point of view and new confidence.
2006-07-05 15:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Poison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋