here is this boy. He is in love with me but im not felling him. I want to tell him but dont know how? He send sme money for no reason at all and now i feel like im using him. I am used to cheating on boys and now he thinks that i can change but im not ready to be in a serious relationship with any one yet. I dont know how to tell him without reaking his heart. Help?
2006-07-05 15:41:15 · 5 answers · asked by Aries Iz Me ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no other way around it. You have to tell him how you feel. Apologize and inform him that you are not ready for a serious relationship right now. Tell him you need a break and not to attempt to call/IM/Text?Email or stalk you.
Yes, that also means you cant accept his gifts, take his money or call him for help all the time. That will confuse him and make him think that you are leading him on.
The pain he will feel, will heal. Nothing good will come of stretching it out.
2006-07-05 15:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Khalen 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I had a similar situation a while back where he was in love with me but I wasn't in love with him. It wasn't the best way to go about it but I just stopped returning his calls and text messages. He did get the idea. Just listen to your gut. You might even want to tell him that you need some time/space. Doesn't have to be a bad thing. You could turn it into a "I've been neglecting myself and I need to just relax" or something like that. Good luck.
2006-07-05 22:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by It'sJustMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all learn how to spell. after you learn how to spell just leave it alone and keep messing with him and take what ever he gives you especially since the two of you don't go out just get you some money and get a new man hopefully he will get the point.
2006-07-05 22:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. if he truely loves you he will understand. and he may see that it will be better off for you and him
2006-07-05 22:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by punkymonkey_blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn homie....iM sorry i cant help you with that ... i also have a problem telling people NO
2006-07-05 22:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by naughty_5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋