My boyfriend's friends always stare at me and try to flirt with me and i do not want to tell him because he will probably beat all of them and get himself in trouble. i do not care about them, just my boyfriend.
2006-07-05 15:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by Kelsey G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously they see you as either an easy lay, (he may be telling tales out of school, and they may "want" what he is getting...)..
Or, they see you as the most exciting woman they have ever seen, and want you for themselves, and forget the boyfriend, they will just disown him if they get you ...
So, if your loyal to your boyfriend, make it perfectly clear in front of him, to them, that you are tired of thier flirting with you!!
Its the best way to insult them as they are insulting you, by eye-balling you in back of your boyfriend and not caring one way or another about it...
Of course, they will hate you...
But, its your choice, either your boyfriend or the ogres...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-05 15:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
sure he's and don't positioned your self in an ungainly place by employing being on my own with him. Your precise to make excuses, he's attempting his luck to be certain how a procedures he can pass. he's not behaving like a lot of a chum to be flirting along with his acquaintances female buddy.
2016-12-10 05:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to stop, and if they don't, you have to let your boyfriend know the crappy kind of friends that he has. Just make him promise not to get into any fights before you tell him what it's about, honesty is important. If you don't tell him and one of them does it might seem like you're keeping it from him on purpose, and you haven't done anything wrong.
2006-07-05 15:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Skitz628 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to stop, and if they don't, you have to let your boyfriend know the crappy kind of friends that he has. Just make him promise not to get into any fights before you tell him what it's about, honesty is important. If you don't tell him and one of them does it might seem like you're keeping it from him on purpose, and you haven't done anything wrong.
2006-07-05 15:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by girly_girl4860 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you define "flirt"
If they are just saying nice things to you and being polite, then it's no big thing. Enjoy the attention, reciprocate as you wish and have fun.
If it is groping or inappropriate touching, attempts to kiss you, continuous discussion of why you should leave your BF for them, then stand your ground, lay down the law with them as to what is allowed and what is not and deal with it straight on.
It's up to you to decide what level of flirtation you are comfortable with, and who knows, by standing up for yourself, they will fall in line.
If not, then tell your BF and work together on settling the issue, without violence.
2006-07-05 15:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Khalen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They must have preconceived opinions about you if they act that way. Just don't buy in to it. A guy will generally leave you alone if you tell them straight out to stop the nonsense. Of course, that depends on your age as most young teenagers like to date different people.
2006-07-05 15:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont respond to their flirting, or take them aside and tell them that you do not appreciate their Actions towards you.If that dont work tell your B/F that you would prefer not to hang out with these Guys, and if he Questions you,WHY; then tell him.
2006-07-05 15:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say anything to your boyfriend until they actually touched or offened you in anyway. If that means that he beats them or gets mad at you just dont take anything from anyone that you dont wanna take.
2006-07-05 15:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by bootsy454 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it goes beyond innuendo, and it bothers you that much, you should tell your boyfriend to get them to stop...assuming that you have already asked his friends to stop.
If your boyfriend does nothing, it's time to get a new boyfriend.
2006-07-05 15:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that its not cool and if they were any kind of friends to him they wouldn't be doing this. If it continues I would go ahead and inform them that you are going to tell your bf.
good luck
2006-07-05 15:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋