2006-07-05 15:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
i know how you feel honey my children are having a really tough time right now because i was recently told i also have breast cancer all you can really do is pray to god that she gets better and hold on to her for as long as you can and if you have brothers and sisters try to be tough and brave for theme god bless you and your family
2006-07-05 15:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 years ago. I'm fine now. Mine was particularly aggressive, and I had a 15 year old son dying of heart disease at the same time.
I am fine now.
Some of the treatments were tough on my kids, but I am fine now. (Are you noticing a pattern here?) My daughter had to help out when I was too tired to do stuff, or after my mastectomies when I was on a lot of pain pills. But she is fine now.
Not everyone gets well, and a sick parent sucks, no question about it. But just help your mom in whatever way you can, be yourself with her, even when you're angry (which may mean NOT helping her, but do the helping part anyway), and find a group at her hospital or treatment center for families of cancer patients. If you're a teen, they'll probably have a special group for you, and you will be amazed at how much fun you'll have.
And remember, you'll be fine and your mom probably will too. Things may not be nearly as hard as you imagine they will. They can do amazing things these days about all kinds of cancer. And even if they can't make her well, you'll most likely have years and years to figure out what to do next.
2006-07-05 16:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the treatment of breat cancer has become one of the most successful forms of cancer treatment. Very often, the patient needs only lumpectomy, or even stereotactic breast biopsy only.
The state of radiation and chemotherapy had markedly improved since the bad old days.
The staging of breast cancer is very important:
1. How big is the tumor? Bigger is worse
2. Are there any positive lymph nodes? Positive nodes are bad- an indirect indicator of possible spread.
3. Is the tumor hormone responsive? ( Estrogen receptor and progesterone receptor positive) This is a good thing if it is since hormonal manipulation can help.
4. Any sign of distant spread? Obviously not good
What else can we tell you? I hope everything goes well.
2006-07-05 15:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bufford M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you depressed? Your Mom is the one with breast cancer. You need to be theree for her. I understand why you are depressed. But you still need to be ther for your mom. Treat her the same, as you always have. Love her, and talk to her about the Cancer if she wants to talk about it. I have a friend that is a Breast Cancer survivor. She was diagnosed 15 years ago, when they didn't have all of the treatments they have now. Keep your chin up. And let your Mom know you are there for her. Love Her, And let her know that you do.
2006-07-05 17:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to someone you trust. There are excellent support groups and get informed. Breast cancer is very curable these days but she will need help and support and so will you!
Good luck.
I work with Breast Ca everyday encourage herto get more thanone opinion and research before acting on any surgery or treatment without getting properly staged (ie get a PET scan).
2006-07-05 15:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by james c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is to try and be there and support her just as much as you possibly can. She needs to see and hear you being positive as much as possible. I went thru all of this with my mother and all you can do is love her and be there for her. I know you feel depressed...that is normal, but she is going to feel depressed and scared enough for everyone believe me. You need to try and be as strong as you possibly can. My mother battled breast cancer, colon cancer and finally bone cancer for 10 yrs...just try and enjoy the time with her that you have. If it was caught early that is a plus, things could turn out okay. I wish you the best...god bless.
2006-07-05 15:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had she undergone radio therapy and chemotherapy, make her drink coconut water it is good for cancer patients, more or Amla juice and Aloe vera. For more detailed Medical advice you can write for free consultation at www.planetayurveda.com and seek good Ayurvedic treatment for cancer. Keep up with allopathy medication but do try Ayurveda parallelly , it will help your mom a lot. This site also has facility to send the cancer medicine. So just write to drvikramchauhan@yahoo.com
2006-07-06 00:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by kingfffisher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-22 23:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hernandez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK OF YOUR MOTHER FIRST. SHE NEEDS ALL THE SUPPORT SHE CAN GET. WHAT IS THE STAGE OF THE BREAST CANCER. STAGE 1&2 CAN MOST LIKELY BE TAKEN CARE OF WITH THE RIGHT CHEMOTHERAPY AND OR RADIATION. SHE NEEDS ALL THE POSATIVE IN HER LIFE.
2006-07-05 16:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by hot pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-08 17:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Help is on the way :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋