I am somewhat of a rebel guy but my friends know me as an upstanding guy. When I am out on the town guys dont mess with me because I am fairly big (NOT FAT). And my looks can be intimidating. Ive been compared to Stone Cold Steve Austin. But when I am in a relationship I treat women with respect and dignity. I tend to attract these psycho girls looking for a bad boy. Then when I am good to them they leave and get with some A** Hole guy. Only after being crapped on by the guy do they realize they want me back. I dont usually go back out with them because they should have seen it in the first place. Besides who wants a woman that dumped you for a guy like that and come back after he used her. I am thinking about becomming one of those A** Holes just so the women will stay with me. Should I?
2006-07-05 14:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO DEFINITELY NOT!!!!
I love guys like you... There should be more guys out there like yourself. Honestly, your type gives me a sense of security that is nice to have, but yet he's caring and understanding which lets me let my guard down and be myself around him.
I really think that I can't possibly be the only girl out and about that wants this from a guy. You just need to find the right girl. Don't start dating just anyone, wait she'll come for you. You might want to be very straight to point from the beginning and ask her what she wants from the relationship and how she expects to be treated. If she gives you any clues that's she's a whack job.. be out!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-05 15:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by PROMISCUOUS SEDUCTION 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
My brother's guy friend used to say he was going to start acting shitty to women because that's what the women wanted. Personally, I don't want a schmuck boyfriend. Although, guys I know go after the girls who can't add two and two and who wear skimpy clothes and act like they don't want them, until they get them, and then they become obsessive. And I consider myself average looking and I sure as hell can carry on a conversation and can add - although math is my weak subject. The point is, while you're dating all these girls who are just playing with your head, some girl is wondering why the Hell you pay any attention to the bad girls who could care less to begin with.
Trust me, if you become a schmuck like the rest of them, you'll get lots of one nighters and simple relationships. If you stay yourself though and keep looking, you'll find something that can last.
2006-07-06 21:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change, but you might want to tone down the clothes you wear. Go more for a gental giant than a bad boy. You'll attract a different crew of girls and hopefully find someone you really connect with.
2006-07-05 22:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never be untrue to yourself. when contemplating relationships I believe you should ask why you choose these women for a relationship. You are an active member in your life and you should really take stock in a woman that you think you may want in a relationship. It is not a bad thing to have standards and to turn someone down because they arent what you are looking for.
2006-07-05 22:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, don't change. Guys should change and be more like you. Those girls just aren't the right girls for you... you'll meet the right one eventually. Try dating different girls then the ones you keep dating, maybe that's the problem?
2006-07-05 22:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dana_Xv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness no. The world needs more guys like you. The right girl will come along, you'll see...Just be yourself. You seem like a nice guy. Good Luck
2006-07-05 22:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let someone else's actions or stupidity make you feel not good enough. There will be plenty of women that will like you for you without any improvement or changes necessary.
2006-07-06 00:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't you change a thing ......well maybe just one thing ,STOP gettin with those undeserving women.i know plenty of women are just waiting for a man such as yourself.don't give in to the pressure you are very UNIQUE.you sound like my husband,and i would not trade him for a zillion dollars! true love will come your way.
2006-07-06 20:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by 360degrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just looking for the wrong type of woman.
2006-07-06 12:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change, change the type of women you are going out with, learn from mistakes and make better choices. best of luck to you......
2006-07-05 22:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by angel_lynn_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋