i've been in love with this girl for more than 10 years, and she loves me too. the problem is that we can't be together because of our parents, so what happens is that she gets a bf and i get a gf, but we can't be happy with them, and we keep going out together without telling anybody,what should i do??? please i need ur help.....
2006-07-05 14:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question you must ask yourself is: Do you want to be happy or do you want to suffer to please your family. It's a classic example of Romeo and Juliet, however, you have the power to change the ending.
You hold the key to your future! Don't let your family dictate who you are to love. You can tell them who you love, who you want to spend the rest of your life with BUT they have no right to say no. They can have their own opinion, but there have absolutely no right to tell you what to do.
By saying that you've been in love with this girl for more than 10 years, I am assuming that you're an adult by now. Listen to your heart. If it causes arguments in the family, think about how life without that girl would be like if you didn't do anything about it.
Tell them how special she makes you feel and tell them how amazing she is. No matter what they say, keep in mind that it is ultimately your choice, nobody else's.
Good luck!
2006-07-12 13:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a lot like Shakespear's Immortal tragedy Romeo and Juliet. Remember: true love is unconditional, and your families should support you in your decision to love one another, and if they do not, then you should follow your hearts. Love is the only answer to all lifetime happiness. It is your life, and the girls life, not your families life. Make your choices, live your life, love your woman, and be happy, regardless of what anyone else thinks. Good luck and God bless!
2006-07-05 15:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her still, respect her, not have other relationships... hope ur family will come to their senses. if not- well, u tried. all that's left is for the both of u to decide upon each other and stick to it. once ur alone and happy, ur families will most probably take u seriously n help u guys... if not? u'll have each other n that's what u always wanted, right? 2 b 2gether, happy n in love; not 2 make ur families happy n yourselves miserable. good luck. i know u can make it.
so my advice: stick 2 ur woman n show the world u love her.
2006-07-05 15:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think if you've told your families and they still don't understand.... I would still get married or w/e because if you love someone chances are your probably not going to find someone else.... and your family would just have to accept the fact that you love each other... that's what I would do... but I would talk to my family again even if you have a few times.
2006-07-05 15:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how older both of u
if both of u under 20 its child play
more than 20 yrs then u r a man ,working in somewhere take her marry her live with her & be a good husband but u ll see what problem u ll face ,enjoy ur singel life better than that good luck
2006-07-05 15:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by ANUBIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T PULL OFF THE ROMEO AND JULIET STUNT!
Talk to you families and explain to them that your love is pure and stuff! If you keep a relationship with no depth, it's not even a relationship. What your families are doing is just stupid.
2006-07-05 15:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a crap what your families think! You lover her, she loves you, and you shouldn't worry about what anyone else says. And that is exactly what you should tell your family and have your girlfriend tell her family. I hate controlling people, especially when they try to come between 2 people so much in love.
2006-07-05 15:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you be together becuase of your families? please add that so it'll be easier to answer!!!
(first post!)
2006-07-05 15:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by kia_tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋