my sister is 15 and her b/f is 17. I'm sixteen. We were at the house watching movies, and my sister went to go make popcorn. 2 seconds after she left, her b/f puts his arm around my shoulders. I look at him and he smiles. Then he kissed me! But the screwed up part, is that I didn't pullback! Well, about then, my sister walkes into the room, and drops the bowl of popcorn...my life is soooooooo totaly over...
2006-07-05 14:54:11 · 33 answers · asked by Aleahgirl31548 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well try explaining to her that he kissed you first and you didnt know what to do. shes not gunna hate you forever, you're family. pretty soon it'll all be over. just whatever you do DONT try to start a relationship with him. that will just hurt her bad. and boys arent worth it.
2006-07-05 15:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Roxanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Your life as you know it with your sister is over, at least for now. She will eventually forgive you because you are her sister but she may not trust you and I don't blame her. You did a really lousy thing to her. The best thing you can do is apologize, try to make it up to her and stay away from her boyfriends (what were you thinking) and hopefully she will forgive you and you can start to rebuild your relationship with her.
Always remember that blood is thicker than water and when all is said and done it is your sister that will be there for you when friends and lovers are gone. (that's the way it should be anyway)
2006-07-18 04:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question??? Yes your are totally screwed up... How could you do that to your sister. If you were my sister I would have kicked your butt and then posted your picture on the Internet as a slut.. Maybe made up some story about you having VD and putting fliers all over school when it starts... But that is only if you were my sister.
2006-07-19 12:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life isn't over, but your relionship with your sister might be. Your fault. Kissing her BF was a lousy thing to do. Perhaps someday, she'll forgive you, but things ARE changed. For both of you. The worst thing is that YOU will always remember that you betrayed her. That is a terrible thning to live with, but, that IS what you did. Let this teach you a lesson. It's nearly impossible to fix things sometines. Much easier to NOT screw things up. Remember that.
2006-07-15 04:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to your sister that her b/f made the first move and that you were trying to break away and he kept you held tight and that you did not do anything to hurt her. This is the type of b/f that neither of you need because this lets you know that he would be the cheating type. Find love somewhere else than on the living room sofa and ditch this guy he's a loser.
2006-07-13 14:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your life is not totally over. Isn't it lucky your sister found out what her boyfriend was really like? Maybe next time she'll make a better choice. But you might want to re-think your part in this. A good sis wouldn't have just sat there and let him smooch, and stay in smooch mode. You might want to think about that.
2006-07-17 12:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your sister needs to realize that her boyfriend is not a faithful guy. This is a big red flag here. If he kissed you first, it's not you, but you're easier to blame for now than he is. Just sit down and talk to her and she'll chill eventually. Or help her find a hot dude who's going to be good to her. *shrug* Good luck.
2006-07-19 06:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes the mess you're in now!! This is typical of two teen sisters. Just don't let a guy get in between your relationship. Guys will come and go but your sister is forever! She will eventually get over it..just look at it as sister drama!!
2006-07-17 07:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by all8418 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a creep. be glad you two saw him for what he is.
If you started to date him, you would never be able to trust him.
Your sister will get over it and realize her bf can't be trusted even in her own home, Imagine what he is like when he is out without your sister.
this guy is bad news.....has no respect, No matter how much you liked the kiss doen't mean you need to have a relationship with him.
Your long term relationship with your sister outweights any guy.
2006-07-18 02:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would never be trusted around my man. It would be a long time before I forgave you. I hope she kicks that guy to the curb. She can't help but talk to you since you live in the same house.
2006-07-18 06:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi , i think u did a bad thing . see she is ur younger sis u kissed her boy friend u know now ur relation will suffer and see that the boy was dating ur sis and kissed u means he was farting with ur sis . so now u have to do something talk to ur sis say sorry as many times as u can she is ur sis and i think she is more important for u more than that guy tell ur sis what relay happened the boy kissed u and whatever ok and final thing is that u should say sorry and sorry as many times u can
2006-07-19 04:34:06 · answer #11 · answered by k_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋