she'll be 58 at graduation-he'll be 68. If they live that long. Any advice for either choice they make?
2006-07-05 14:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by islandboosky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should mention-they didn't just spread thier legs-they've been seeing each other for over a year. He has no family left and her only family is a mother that is ill. They are not against abortion, after all pregnancy after 40 has health risks. An adoption would only be advised by someone who has no clue. But the opportunity to experience this is--well... I don't have any solid advice to give my best friends. I just want them to be happy.
2006-07-05 15:19:06 · update #1
the fact that the question is being asked means something. i am not anti-abortion but i am certainly not an advocate. if the two people are responsible adults that are willing to make the sacrifice well then hell yeah have the kid. age is nothing but a number. kids make you younger.
2006-07-05 15:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by simple1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is their decision, no one can make that up to them. I say have it because I don't believe in abortions (only if something terribly is wrong with the fetus) and I don't like the idea of giving it up for adoption. If they didn't want to have a kid they should have kept their legs closed. But if they are excited, nervous, happy, scared then I say give it a chance. And yes they will live that long. Humans can live for a long time.
2006-07-05 14:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by B.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't make a decision for anyone else but if it were me, I would have the baby. I'm anti-abortion. Any life is a life worth saving in my opinion.
2006-07-05 14:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she has been alone long enough, and at this point her kids will be adults by time she is ready to retire at 60 so why not! and they are only ten yeas apart and at thier age i would say it is just fine!
2006-07-05 14:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
58/68 are not old and feeble these days. its a choice they need to make.. do they want that experience or will it dampen their lifestyles... only they can answer that question.
2006-07-05 14:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by pammy6446 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes only 40 y not
thats great dont hate
2006-07-05 15:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by sexy luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want kids...then keep it, if not give it up for adoption, simple as that.
2006-07-05 14:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should have it.
2006-07-05 14:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by lady_bird_2000us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋