2006-07-05 14:29:00 · 12 answers · asked by CICI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Check for signs. Is he secretive when talking on the phone? Does he always go into another room to talk. Does he get uneasy if you try to use, or look at his cell phone? Does he get on the computer a lot, and get angry when you come into the room? You can tell if he clicks the page when you enter.
Does he come home late from work often, and when you try to call he will not answer, and when you ask where he has been, he gets mad? Does he call you during the day? Does he ask when you are going to be home? Can you go to lunch together, or is he always too busy. Can you just show up at his work? When you call his work, how do they treat you? Are you able to spend time together, go out together, is he romantic with you? Has your relationship changed lately? Are there unexplained charges on your charge card, or money missing from the budget?
Does he kiss you when he comes home, or does he avoid you? If he comes in late, does he go straight to the shower. Check his clothes for perfume, make up, and yes hair. Check out his car as well. Take a piece of masking tape and sweep the back and seat on the passenger side.
Has he started acting jealous towards you? Cheating spouses will begin to assume that if they are cheating, everyone is.
Now with all of that being said, if you feel like something is happening, and circumstances have changed, then you might be in for bad news. But you have to ask yourself, honestly how good is your judgement, how good have your hunches been in the past? Are you naturally suspicous, and do you worry a lot? You are the best one to answer this, and if you can't, ask a close friend that you trust. Many people have said that they got tired of being accused, that they felt why shouldn't I go ahead and cheat, I keep getting blamed for it anyway.
You have a lot to think about, I wish you the answer you hope for. If you are someone who could forgive this, if in fact it is happening, then fight for him. And if you know the woman, keep her real close. So close she can't take a step without you knowing it. But do it like a double agent, cool, calm, and in charge. Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.
Is he worth fighting for? Or would you be happier with him gone? Your vows were for richer or poorer, in sickness, and in health, until death do you part. If he is cheating you have a legitimate out, from a Biblical standpoint, but just because he breaks his vow doesn't mean you have to. When it is all said and done, the decision will be up to you. I do not know what I would do, I know what I think I would do, I pray I will not ever have to know. I pray the same for you.
2006-07-05 15:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you know that he is or is it just a assumption? When and if you find out it is true then you should get out as soon as possible, because they will try to tell you that they will never do it again well that is a lie becuse once a cheater always a cheater. Some Signs to look for is at night when he is home and he wants to stay up and tells you it is ok to go to bed by your self and he smells different, if he is lying to you about where he has been and why. and most of all look in his phone and vehicle and there is a ad in the news paper that helps you learn how to tell you if your spouse is cheationg or not. But First and For Most DO NOT I repeat DO NOT listen to any rumors or anything else anyone tells you unless you have proof becuase when you assume something and it is wrong then it makes an *** out of u and the other party *** u me,
2006-07-05 21:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sierra E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you "think" your husband is cheating, you should confront him about the situation. But if you know he is cheating for a fact, then you need to get rid of him. He obviously does not care enough to be faithful, and has no repsect for you. The most important thing to do right now is confront him, or find some kind of proof.
2006-07-05 22:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow him, have a friend follow him so he doesnt recognize the car or something. IF your at work and hes home leave work a couple hours before your supposed to and show up at home. Try talking to him u might just be paranoid, but if he is he's not gonna tell the truth anyways
2006-07-05 21:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to know if he is actually cheating on you. If he does, and you don't want to leave him and getting lonely. Find another guy that has a feeling for you and then get divorce. HAPPY
2006-07-05 21:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know for sure, beyond a shadow of doubt, then divorce him. It's either that or put up with him cheating on you. I moved out on mine while he was visiting his girlfriend for 3 days. He was out of town for those 3 days and I knew where he was, so while he was gone I moved out.
2006-07-05 21:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you think your man is cheating on you? thats how you can tell. lol no if he is saying he is going to the office every night or is late for home ask him ?'s or spy on him.
2006-07-05 21:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by bloch_andrew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him...
If he came clean or I still thought that he was cheating I would leave. Women's intuition is usually right.
2006-07-05 21:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch any Madea "tyler perry" movie/play...she'll give you the answer
2006-07-05 21:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Reese 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sneek around the house
2006-07-05 21:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋