no not gay never had this urge with anyone but my wife i dont want to push her into it but i want to try it.i have a 12 inch penis so would it be impossible.i have been with her for 5 years we have 3 lovely kids and i dont want to destroy the relationship by wanting something she cant do BUT I STILL WANT TO TRY i think im just curious.i dont really know.i have never wanted to try with anyone else but her. not even in my previous relationship did i want to try HELP should i just give up and keep this to myself?
2006-07-05 14:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by overider2000 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
think about it would you like something that size shoved up your a** then think would she
2006-07-05 14:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked with your wife about this? Open communication is the key to any relationship. There is nothing wrong with wnating to experiment with different sex positions etc. Anal sex for some is very pleasurable. The key is lots of lubricant and gentleness... There are lubs out there designed for anal sex to help with comfort. Also, it would be wise to use a condom every time. To keep bacteria at bay etc...
2006-07-05 21:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by htchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a big deal. Noone thinks you're gay- a lot of straight people have anal sex. It would probably be more pleasurable for you than her, though. Remember- if you do this, not to put your penis in her vagina after unless you have cleaned it in the interim, so she doesn't get infected.
2006-07-05 21:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont for one minute think you have a 12 inch penis. Anyway, check with your wife first and you two will figure it out together.
Hints: Condoms, LOTS of lubrication, patience/relaxation and trust.
2006-07-05 22:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to her about it and ask her how she feels. Honesty about what you desire or are curious about is essential in a relationship. She won't hold it against you. She may be willing to give it a try, but if it's painful or uncomfortable for her, then you should respect that.
2006-07-05 21:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not best to keep it a secret. Your relationship can only move forward if you're completely honest. Tell her about your fantasy and if she wants to try it good for you--if she doesn't then forget about it and move on.
2006-07-05 21:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last I checked the Anus was an EXIT only!!!!! Please don't push your selfish desires on your lovely wife...she has given you 3 precious gifts already...don't ruin it. Not to mention you can SERIOUSLY hurt your wife in the process. How would you like to live with that GUILT?
2006-07-05 21:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by cross_countryjumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, ask your wife if she okay with it. then when you do that plz use a lot of lubricant and careful. it just that i heard from my friends at medical student said that anal sex can damage anal anatomical structure. so just plz be careful. ok. you don't want to hurt your wife, do you ?
2006-07-06 21:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sellange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.... you should keep it to yourself. I want to rob a bank cause I could use the extra cash, but that would bring me more negative consequences than positive ones, so I won't. The extra cash would be nice though....
2006-07-05 21:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by lancemikemack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to your wife about it? See how she feels about it? She just may be wanting or willing to. Ya never know!
2006-07-05 21:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by peachez082 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you jus try to communicate with your wife... if she agree den its a new sensation for the both of you. Gd luck.
2006-07-05 21:35:25 · answer #11 · answered by k3nji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋