my boyfriend lives with his parents we have sex in his rooom while his parents are in the living room .somestimes i get pissed at myself because i think im not respecting myself.his about to get his car and im pretty sure his gonna wanna do it in there .how do you guys feel about having sex in a room while there parents are in the next room or having sex in a car all the time .should i just go with it ?
2006-07-05 14:15:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-05 14:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by sibohan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it in the room then i don't think u should. If u don't want to do it in the car then i don't think u should either. I mean like if you want to then u should. I mean iv'e had sex in the same room situation and in a car, (his car). But i'm not 16- 50. I'm only 14 but i have been thro things that most people never experiance by the age of 25. I just thaught i could give u a good answere. Good luck with this situation!Oh and fallow ur brain not ur heart most of the time
2006-07-05 14:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably stick with the room because if you get caught doing it in a car, not only to you have to deal with the embarrassment but also you can be hit with a ticket for indecent exposure, not to mention there could be state laws about having sex in a car or outside a house. I am not kidding on that one, there is some law here in Oklahoma about having sex in a car.
2006-07-05 14:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The car sounds cool but damn do have respect for the folks in the next room especially if they are his parents.I'm pretty sure they feel embarrassed about the whole thing them selves.You can't tell me they do not know what you guys are up too.They won't say nothing but i would stop that unless they are out of the house.Think about it.Would you want your daughter or son doing that to you in the next room?
2006-07-05 14:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't just go with the flow. Stand up for what you feel is right. If you don't feel comfortable then don't do it. If your boyfriend can't understand that, then all he wants from you is sex. In that case, you need to ditch him fast. Unless sex is just what you are after, but I highly doubt that and you wouldn't have asked this question if that statement was true. Go with your gut feeling girl. Personally I think that is sort of trashy and disrespectful to you and his parents.
2006-07-05 14:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see anything wrong with it u old enough right, I think u should try to keep it down so his parents dont get annoyed, and having sex in a car is fun, Just go with it.
2006-07-06 06:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well teenagers have no where really to have sex, to young to rent a hotel or have a house, i think while his parents are there is disrespectful and i personally wont do that but a car is pretty much all that is left, unless his your house is empty. bottom line if you feel bad doing it, then dont do it. leave him hard until your comfortable with the situation, wherever you are
2006-07-05 22:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by k_rad007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im only 14, but i can give you a simple answer... No! you should know why...
if this were in japan, the situation would be different... and also, it would depend on your actual age. i have never experienced something that saced because I am saving myself for marrage, but you shouldn't be wasting your precious time and dedication to "sex in his car" or "sex in his room while his parents are in the other room"... its a bit wrong, dont you think..
ive just read your other questions, and if it were me, I would leave him... hes a jerk.
2006-07-05 14:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do what feels right for you... i think that if you are not giving yourself enough self respect... let him know....tell him that you dont like doing it WITH HIS PARENTS IN THE NEXT ROOM, a little risky of embarrassment. Let him know that you want to make it more respectable, not so cheap...be more romantic ... good luck
2006-07-05 14:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by BASKETBALL_playHer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the EXACT same thing. I'm the guy though. My girlfriend and I made the promise that sex would never become the most important thing. with that said it never really bothered us because we knew we respected each other and it was the only place we had at our disposal. we have since moved into our own place and it is GREAT!
2006-07-05 14:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by EchoShark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to sneak around to have sex, then you are not old enough to be having sex. If you get pregnant where will you live? In your boyfriend's bedroom? Tell him to get his own apartment and then you'll have sex with him. (And sex in a car may be good for him, but it won't be fun for you.)
2006-07-05 14:18:46 · answer #11 · answered by Annette R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋