m confused... i need advise...
2006-07-05 14:03:46 · 21 answers · asked by clueless29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have someone that you love and loves you back.
2006-07-05 14:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I love!
I don't care if he leaves me, I want to be able to enjoy having the one I love at least for a little while.
I think that's why the book and the movie " The Bridges of Madison County " become so popular among women, it answers that very question. Some people live a lifetime in four days - a lifetime!
Now let's restate the question: would you chose a lifetime with someone you love (no matter how long it takes) or the other alternative ?
2006-07-05 14:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really look for a guy who you love and loves you... right?
If just your two choices, then obviously for selfish reasons you would want someone that loves you because you might grow into loving him from his love for you. If you love someone but that person doesn't love you, you'll only end up heartbroken because a guy will always move on if he's not in love with you. A guy will not wait for love to grow.... we're just not like that.
2006-07-05 14:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
Does the guy that you love - love you? If so then go for it! If he does not feel the same way about you then I doubt that it would work!
How do you feel about the guy that is in love with you? Are you attracted to him? Do you do fun stuff together? If so then I would go for it! Being loved by someone forever is different then trying to make them love you!
I hope that made sense. I would go for the person who you feel will make you happy - no bias!
2006-07-05 14:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one who loves u back but the question is do u love him to
2006-07-05 14:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jamia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really confusing.. but i think if the guy that you love doesn't love you, there's no point.
if you don't love the guy who love you, there's also no point.. so it's hard to choose.
but, i think its better to choose the guy that you love . that's the point of loving someone...you know, you must love them...
2006-07-05 14:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose no one.If u r a patient person,u should choose the one who loves u n then try for a long time to c whether u can luv him.if no, choose no one
2006-07-05 14:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by New mem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the guy that loves you, he will more than likey love you always and you can learn to love him, maybe you already do love hime somewhat and it could evolve.
2006-07-05 14:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by quincie1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean i chose the wrong one,..... i chose the one that i loved.... but found out that i really actually loved the other one more... too late now... no use crying over spilled milk
do you think with the love that one has for you, that you can love him back in turn....
does the one you love love you?
2006-07-05 14:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer / 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy who loves me because if you love someone that dosen't love you he will make your life miserable just because you love him he knows he can take advantage of your feelings and if your with someone that loves you that person can teach you to love them by showing you their feelings!! You know what I mean??
2006-07-05 14:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by teresita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋