2006-07-05 14:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by kiss2envy 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-07-05 14:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everybody has some qualities that make them worth befriending. Only problem is, you have to share who you are with them to be a friend. This is really tough for some folks. Sounds like you might be one of them.
It's good that you have a job. You do have some personality and are able to interact with people on a superficial level, but I suspect you are afraid to allow people to see any deeper into your heart.
The key word here is afraid. If you fear exposing who you are to others, you might be suffering from depression and low self esteem. That is very common these days and is something that can be overcome with a little effort on your part.
One of the ways to manage these problems is to find therapy groups where other folks have these same difficulties. You'd be surprised how many people are out there like you and mostly just need someone to talk to to help get their **** together. I know these groups can work.
There are lots of free options available, many through churches (wouldn't be my first choice), some through the YMCA/YWCA, and others.
I hope you find some happiness! CDB
2006-07-05 21:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by cdb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey kiss, sometimes it just isn't easy being alone. I kind of wonder why you don't have any friends? Are you new to your town? If so it won't be long until you can meet new people. If you can't find anyone worth befriending at work then get to the local haunts, like the park, the bowling alley, the bookstore, whatever is of interest to you is the place to begin hanging around meeting new people. I wish you the best of luck and until you can meet some flesh and bloods in your town, you can e-mail me through here! I'll be glad to visit with you. I love meeting new people in places I've never been, it breaks my monotony too. Good luck!! Nana
2006-07-05 21:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, I know where you're coming from! Just remember that work isn't your whole life, only a part of it, and you don't have to be friends with somebody just because you work with them. Make time for your real friends outside of work.
2006-07-05 21:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking for another job. Keep thinking that this job is temporary.
In this job market any job is better then none.
And cherish the friends outside of work even more.
2006-07-05 21:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by mick987g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them. If they're not worth being friends with, then don't be friends with them. You'll know when a true friend comes.
2006-07-05 21:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Williams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which is important? Money or fake breakable relationships?
2006-07-05 21:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by redhead2734 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never went to work to make friends.
2006-07-05 21:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find someone to marry, that can be your only and best friend.
2006-07-05 21:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by slugworm88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be able to tell us!!!
2006-07-05 21:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by bluebirdswest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋